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Sex dilemma!!!

Q.   Hello everyone, posted yesterday about an issue with my girlfriend. Now I got another question about sex in relationships. Is it normal that I want sex once a day if the possibility is there? Is it uncomfortable for the woman in the relationship if ...

A.   20 September 2010: Thank you all for your tips! The thing is that she doesn't allow me to get into the foreplay... she always has a problem with me looking at her body. When we have sex it has to be dark so I can't see her body. Othersides she always says I have a be... (read in full...)

My girlfriend and alcohol is a bad combination!

Q.   Hello everyone, I got a little problem over here... I'm since 1 month together with my girlfriend now. Everything is just fine with her; she is the best thing that happened in my life (you know what I mean right? :) ). But as soon alcohol comes in...

A.   20 September 2010: Well, thank you all for your comments :) I'm sort of depressive because of this. I don't know what I do wrong so I can't do nothing to correct it. Am I so damn bad in bed? Well, that question won't have an answer.. It's very crappy as it is now, and ... (read in full...)

What to do when you were fooled once again?

Q.   (Mod Note - OP's own title) Well, The story is damn long, but I'll keep it simple: I fell in love with a girl that hat a boyfriend. She ended falling in love with me. 2 weeks later her boyfriend broke up, and 3 days after that, we were coming t...

A.   8 February 2010: I think You're right, I'll just Be Kind and still. After all, relationships come and go. I'll get over it. thank you all very mouch for your politeness. Have a nice Day!... (read in full...)

Why do women do such things?

Q.   Hi everyone, I don't know why I don't listen to what people tel me. I'd love to know a reason for my stupidity. I fell in love wit ha girl who has a boyfriend. She also fell in love with me. As a fact, yesterday she was at my place. Wonder what...

A.   30 November 2009: You make make honor to your Nickname Code Warrior. I guess that you're right. I know I'm stuid when it comes to Feeling. A bit noobish I have to say. I don't know how to handle with woman and walk blindly into traps, as you can see. I really hope ... (read in full...)

I have been told she is using me because she already has a b/f. Do women hide their intentions?

Q.   There is a girl I met short time ago... I got told she is messing around with me because she has got a boyfriend but she keeps on arousing me. When she phones with her boyfriend they don't even say they love eachother or similar... She has had some ...

A.   2 November 2009: I'll try to keep my emotions in the glass pot and I will research a littler deeper what is going on with her, her boyfriend and me. I hope that I'm right this time and that I have a chance with her. But in retrospection I'll probably fail in this ... (read in full...)

The new world for a man, how do I learn to love?

Q.   Hi every one, pardon me for coming with questions at this late time in the night... BUt I must say a few words before I can ask... I am pretty confused right now... you see, I met a girl 2 months ago, Jenny is her name. I first got to know her ...

A.   2 November 2009: I Know you aren't lying but it's somehow hard to accept the fact that I might be wrong... I usually try to make things nicer to myself, and that's the reason for the whole lot of mistakes I've done in the past 10 years of my life. Could you give me ... (read in full...)

I'm slowly developing a hatred towards women...

Q.   A girl that I've been crushing over for about a year just rejected me. In my lifetime I've developed crushes over many girls and not one of them ever said yes, I can't fucking take rejection any more, I can't even feel the pain, I'm slowly ...

A.   30 May 2009: Hello there, I am 20 and live in the same situation as you :) I feel sometimes that my pride is the only thing left to fight for! Life is hard, but we HAVE to learn to get over it. I'm in souch a situation in this exactly moment with a girl I met 2 ... (read in full...)

My pride is gone and not sure how to recover it

Q.   Hello every body. I have got a little problem with luck a I would like to leave this out, I am really pissed off in this moment. As some of you might know, I'm living in Germany. Yesterday, me and my friends went out in Hamburg, a huge city in the...

A.   23 May 2009: Thank you both for your answers. They really left me thinking, and yes, what I want is she, over every other thing in my life. I guess You are right, maybe it's time to leave boxing and get concerned about things that need thinking instead of ... (read in full...)

My pride is gone and not sure how to recover it

Q.   Hello every body. I have got a little problem with luck a I would like to leave this out, I am really pissed off in this moment. As some of you might know, I'm living in Germany. Yesterday, me and my friends went out in Hamburg, a huge city in the...

A.   23 May 2009: Well, There truly is nothing else that I hate more than death or anything that hangs with it. But I am used to fight, not to retreat. And what you say may be true, I will dig in myself untill I find out what's going on. What confuses me right now is ... (read in full...)

Age..just a number?

Q.   i really like this guy- but hes 24 and i'm 14. i know i have to get over it, but i just can't! i try so hard but it doesn't work. I see him all the time, and he acts like its a joke that i'm in love with him when we're around other people, but when ...

A.   3 May 2009: You had BIG luck with this guy, he is honest and doing the right thing, trying to avoid it. Help him by staying just firends or so. Maybe in 5-6 years you meet again and still think "holy crap, I still love him!", and maybe then it's a better ... (read in full...)

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