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hi i am 23 years old, i am married i have been through a great deal in my life and think that my personal experiences can help when it comes to other peoples problems. i am very sensitive with other people when it comes to helping with their problems, but i will always be as honest as i can or if i am not how can that help? anyway if there is anything else ppl would like to know about me, just send me a msg and i will answer as honestly as i can.

Is it wrong to date an older man?

Q.   hi ijust met this guy he is 46 is it wrong to date someone older then you? and there is this other guy that i really like but he told me to move on what should i do? there is a friend that keeps coming over wanting to have sex how can ...

A.   19 January 2010: No there is absolutely nothing wrong with dating older men. I am in fact 23 and married to a man of 45 and blissfully happy!! Older men are much maturer. So long as you think you can cope with the occasional small minded persons negative comments, ... (read in full...)

We broke up because I had depression and he cheated, we still have sex, should we get back together?

Q.   Hii.. Mmm.. The name is Daisy and nearly seventeen. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 2 years, we've been having intercourse for one year. we broke up due to me getting depression and i needed time alone and he cheated on me - but...

A.   17 January 2010: to be perfectly honest darling i would take a good long think about this. Do you think you can trust this guy again after he cheated? if you can then maybe its time to let bygones be bygones and try again. however, i would take things very slowly ... (read in full...)

My dad says I'm disrespecting him if I date this guy.

Q.   I like this guy. Hes black and my dad doesn't want me dating a black guy at all. He says its bad to society and everyone will hate me for it. Is that true ?? Me and the guy have just started really getting to know each other and we aren't planning ...

A.   17 January 2010: huni i think your father is seriously racist!! in my opinion only racist people will have a problem with you dating this guy. if you really like him you should go for it, you need to live your own life not the life your father is trying to forc... (read in full...)

Do you think I should expect to hear from him?

Q.   I am a senior in college. At the end of last semester, I asked my teaching assistant out for a drink over email. He responded that he was soon to be going out of town for the holidays but "perhaps" we could arrange to do something once he got back ...

A.   17 January 2010: huni you need to think this through before you go any further. the problem that you are going to have here is that even if this guy thinks you are the most gorgeous girl hes ever seen in his life, he would lose his job if the two of you started ... (read in full...)

Role playing...

Q.   can you help us by suggesting role playing ideas! me and my wife are looking for some. some thing that is not off a filthy porn style, but of a nice fantasy....

A.   17 January 2010: there are mant things you could try that are great fun( me and my husband have tried them and i assure you it is brilliant). you could try a schoolgirl outfit. sexy secretary pretend to not know each other and meet in a bar have you wife dress u... (read in full...)

What lesson can I learn from all of this?

Q.   i actually thought he liked me.. made me feel so Special. He would ring and text me all the time but he then pressured into sex.. and i gave in and I regret it and hate myself SO much. He didn't even ring to find out if i got home safe or not.....

A.   17 January 2010: what you need to learn from this is that you should never ever give in to pressure to have sex because if someone cared for you they would never pressurise you into anything. dont feel guilty or hate yourself about this, we all make mistakes huni( i ... (read in full...)

My ex is playing with my feelings, how do I go back to no contact?

Q.   My ex boyfriend dumped me at the beginning of December because, in his own words, he didn't have time for a girlfriend. Straight after he dumped me I applied the No Contact rule, and was doing great until he text me at New Year asking how every...

A.   17 January 2010: this first thing i would suggest that you do would be to change your number so that this lame idiot cant contact you again. secondly make sure that you have as much fun as you can, go out with friends, start a new hobby etc. just remember that you ... (read in full...)

How do I turn myself on?

Q.   I'm 19 years old and I just got over a serious relationship. I'm used to having sex a couple times a week, and now that I've moved away to an area I know no one but family, I feel aroused and can't do anything to fix it! I've tried pleasuring ...

A.   17 January 2010: i think that maybe you should try a little pornography or perhaps a couple of carefully selected sex toys. however, practice makes perfect and if you keep trying to pleasure yourself in different ways you will soon learn what turns you on and what ... (read in full...)

He put his penis in unprotected, now I'm late, but it wasn't full on sex

Q.   Okay, so I don't know much about sex but lately I've gotten incredibly paranoid. A little while ago things with my boyfriend heated up and he stuck his penis in without a condom, but things did not get intense because we both didn't really move and ...

A.   17 January 2010: unfortunately, yes there is a chance that you could be pregnant and i suggest the first thing you do is a test. the problem that you have here is that men produce pre-sperm(he will not feel this happening) that leaks out of this penis when erect and ... (read in full...)

I want another child but he has had the snip

Q.   I'll apologize for the length up front coz I know what a yap yap I can be and expect this will be long lol, so dont read it if too long for ya, but dont complain if ya do coz U have been warned ..lol Before we got together, he knew I wanted an...

A.   17 January 2010: i am in the exact situation you are. What i think you need to do is sit down and be absolutely honest with him and tell him that spending the rest of your life happily in love with him is more important to you than having another child, i think that ... (read in full...)

She dumped me, moved on and has a new boyfriend, but is calling me - why?

Q.   Long story short; My Ex and I went out for 18 months. Last month we broke up (she broke up with me a few days after I talked to her about how she is always lying to me and others). We were deeply in Love. We also lived together. Anyways, the bre...

A.   17 January 2010: i think what this woman is doing is what we call "testing the water". i feel she is trying to find out what feelings you still have for her(maybe to see if you can get back together, or maybe she doesnt want you but doesnt want anyone else to have ... (read in full...)

I want to give my new boyfriend head...

Q.   so i want to give my new boyfriend head. we`ve been together 3 months and we have started to get sexual. ive done it before to my ex and the ex before that and they always said it was really good. but the problem is... they were both ...

A.   17 January 2010: i had the same problem with my current man. i would suggest that you attempt how far you can take something like a banana into your mouth and still be comfortable(i suggest you try this a few times before attempting anything with your bf). if you ... (read in full...)

What's wrong with me? I love my teacher (not IN love)

Q.   Ok, so I've been doing as much research as possible over the internet on this topic but none of the cases I found were quite the same as mine, and after months of searching for advice online and finding nothing, I've decided to post my question on ...

A.   17 January 2010: i am by no means going to be mean to you or say this is some weird kind of crush.... because i dont think it is. i was in a very similar situation myself. I think what has actually happened here is that she has told you a few things that she has ... (read in full...)

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