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My body isn't the same after having a baby...so my bf's porn watching bothers me... a lot! What can I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years we have a two year old daughter and we live together. I caught him watching porn the other night while i was supposed to be napping. I approached him and he lied to my face when i could see it on ...

A.   23 January 2012: As the person below said, this almost certainly has nothing to do with you having had a baby, the appearance of your body, or anything else on your end. I understand that there's a huge disconnect between men's attitude toward watching porn an... (read in full...)

The first 2 dates were great, 3rd a little awkward. Was is the alcohol that made them easier?

Q.   I've been dating a guy and the first 2 dates went great, we had a lot to talk about and a great time (although these two times there was alcohol involved so we may have both been a little drunk from about halfway through the dates). However, ...

A.   9 January 2012: The answer is that, sure, it's possible that it was the alcohol, but it also could have been several other things and the only way to really know is to go out with him again. Yep, alcohol (consumed in the right setting) does magically make peo... (read in full...)

How can I keep my desires down, so to respect my girlfriends no sex before marriage beliefs, but still enjoy the relationship?

Q.   Dear Cupid Im in love with my Girlfreind we are have been going out for almost a year. We have a reall connection and are the best of freinds. The biggest arument we have had was when i did not like her baby names. Im finding it really hard...

A.   5 January 2012: With due respect to the poster below, sex is not 'designed to bring together two people in love' it's designed to propagate the species. The rest of the answer below makes some sense for women, but none for you. Your body is telling you to sprea... (read in full...)

Husband hasn't even tried for another job since he got his degree!

Q.   I have been married for two year but have been with my husband for ten. We both wanted to wait til we were done with college before we got engaged.Well now I am the one with the good job and paying the mortgage, while my husband still works his ...

A.   5 January 2012: Well, as the old adage goes: you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. In this case you can lead the horse to water, tell the horse "it's really important to me that you drink" and then hope it does so. Graphic Design is a gre... (read in full...)

How can I keep my desires down, so to respect my girlfriends no sex before marriage beliefs, but still enjoy the relationship?

Q.   Dear Cupid Im in love with my Girlfreind we are have been going out for almost a year. We have a reall connection and are the best of freinds. The biggest arument we have had was when i did not like her baby names. Im finding it really hard...

A.   4 January 2012: You're never going to stop wanting sex, you're a human being. If that's what you're trying to do it's an impossible quest. The woman that posted below is correct that you won't die due to lack of sex, but you will certainly suffer -- if you... (read in full...)

Husband hasn't even tried for another job since he got his degree!

Q.   I have been married for two year but have been with my husband for ten. We both wanted to wait til we were done with college before we got engaged.Well now I am the one with the good job and paying the mortgage, while my husband still works his ...

A.   4 January 2012: Hello, I wanted to address this question, as I found myself in a situation similar to your husband's soon after graduating college. For me, going through school was structured and simple: one studied, met a goal, achieved said goal, then moved... (read in full...)

How can I keep my desires down, so to respect my girlfriends no sex before marriage beliefs, but still enjoy the relationship?

Q.   Dear Cupid Im in love with my Girlfreind we are have been going out for almost a year. We have a reall connection and are the best of freinds. The biggest arument we have had was when i did not like her baby names. Im finding it really hard...

A.   3 January 2012: At your age, an exclusive, monogamous relationship of almost a year would be (frankly) expected to involve sexual intercourse. What your girlfriend is doing is essentially saying: 'you can only have sex with me and I'm not going to have sex with ... (read in full...)

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