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Hi there,

My story goes like this:

I'm gray (not my real name, by the way)

I've been married for three years, and I'm 20 years old. I'm from New Mexico.

I like to give advice when I can, and can be very opinionated. Though I do have some problems now and then with the husband, I like to think I have some good ideas. :)

Porn after sex

Q.   Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...

A.   10 August 2010: When you guys put it that way, I guess I can see where he's coming from. He was still horny, but knew I was tired. Never thought to think that he was considering my feelings in this. Wonder why I didn't think of that lol But if he was c... (read in full...)

Porn after sex

Q.   Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...

A.   9 August 2010: Okay lol In a nutshell: He used to look at it every chance he got. For example, whenever I'd go to the store, or out with a friend. Every time he had time alone, he'd look at it. Now it's just at night. So he has cut back alot. I don't mind ... (read in full...)

My cheating boyfriend says he loves me and wont do it ever again, but why is he still talking to the other woman?

Q.   This is a real messed up situation. Just found out my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me. I want to forgive him and want to believe him that he is doing everything in his power to be more committed to me, but the facts are not adding up. What do ...

A.   9 August 2010: I think the main question here is: Can you ever trust him again? He betrayed that trust. I've read it a million times, and I never really looked at it as I do now: Trust is KEY to any relationship. Without trust, or with broken trust, there is alwa... (read in full...)

Is it ok to have a long distance relationship?

Q.   Does anyone think it's good to have long distance relationships/Online ones? If you have any experience could you let me know if it's worth it.I met this guy and he's amazing ( it's been almost 2 years ) we get along, he knows mostly everything ...

A.   9 August 2010: I met my husband online. I'd known him online for three years before meeting him in person. I won't call it a mistake to have married him after meeting him only three times, but it was difficult. Online is a place where anyone can be anyone. It was ... (read in full...)

Porn after sex

Q.   Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...

A.   9 August 2010: I should surely be worried then. It's hours a night he looks through porn. He doesn't come to bed until around 3 or 4 in the morning, and he starts when he's sure I'm asleep around 11 or 12. I don't see what he would have to escape from, though. ... (read in full...)

Porn after sex

Q.   Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...

A.   9 August 2010: First off, I want to clear something up for Miamine. I do want to say that I am not COMPLETELY against him using porn. He can use it. It's just him using it RIGHT after sex with me that hurts. I hardly ever turn him down, but when I do, he goes ... (read in full...)

Porn after sex

Q.   Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...

A.   8 August 2010: Thanks for the advice. I think I might look that book up. I think anything would help at this point. I talked to him about it yesterday. He said he didn't know how they got there. Yeah, lame excuse. I don't know if he thought that would work, or he ... (read in full...)

Porn after sex

Q.   Hi there, My problem is this: My husband has always been addicted to porn. Ever since we first got married, it's been a constant thorn in my side. I have sex with him so I know that's not the problem. I've told him how it hurts my feelings, but ever...

A.   7 August 2010: I was thinking that too. Children don't need to be put through this. So I'm definitely rethinking the family thing. I was thinking he'd slowed down a bit on the porn. The only thing that tipped me off that he'd done it last night, was the tissues ... (read in full...)

Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.

Q.   My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...

A.   7 August 2010: I'm in the same boat. As soon as me and my husband moved into our new home after we were married, the porn started. I used to throw fits about it, but that never stopped him. I'm starting to see that this is a common problem with men. I've read ... (read in full...)

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