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Things were great at first. Now he's quiet and tired and the sex has disappeared...

Q.   I've been with my fella for 9 months. Everything was great at first but recently things have changed. He doesn't seem to make the effort and with regards to sex, he won't unless I initiate it. I love him dearly, he's 38, I'm 26. He's a quiet pe...

A.   29 September 2005: Like wishes, I'm not convinced that you have a can of worms to open there. Unless of course, he's spending time out of the home, or getting a more-than-usual flow of text messages. Something a bit more concrete than just being distant. You m... (read in full...)

I suspect my husband is cheating, but I'm not really sure I want to know.

Q.   I have been married for 11 years, but have been with my husband approx 15 yrs. He has cheated on me (twice that I know of), and yes I forgave him....well, I stayed with him. We have 3 children and they are the main reason I have stayed as long as ...

A.   29 September 2005: Do you really want to know? Common sense would say of course you do, remove emotion from the equation. You have a contract of trust and commitment with this man, even more so when children are involved. You deserve to know, and either way, you are ... (read in full...)

Should I cheat on my boyfriend? He'd never know!

Q.   I am out on a holiday without my boyfriend of a year and a half. I met another man that I really like and know he likes me too. I can't stop thinking about this other man. I am thinking about cheating one my boyfriend as he will never know. I can't ...

A.   29 September 2005: There's almost a line of canned answers to this one, all which say do it after you've dumped the partner, or don't do it at all. I'll be slightly different :) By getting as far as having to ask aloud if you should or shouldn't indicates that you... (read in full...)

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