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Why am I still thinking about the affair so many years afterwards?

Q.   My husband had an affair many, many years ago. We never really dealt with it in any way. He just said he wouldn't do it again and that he wasn't very proud of himself. If I would ask a question about it he would lie or ask "why do you want to talk ...

A.   17 April 2006: I think I made a little mistake when I said it was 5 painful days, in reality I guess it was only 4. It has been a very STESSFUL 4 days, it feels like at least 10! Again, Thank you from the bottom of my heart.... (read in full...)

Why am I still thinking about the affair so many years afterwards?

Q.   My husband had an affair many, many years ago. We never really dealt with it in any way. He just said he wouldn't do it again and that he wasn't very proud of himself. If I would ask a question about it he would lie or ask "why do you want to talk ...

A.   17 April 2006: I can't thank you both enough for responding so quickly with your helpful and very good advise. I guess you both gave me the re-assurance that I needed to deal with my trust issue. I hadn't ever discussed this with anyone for over 20 years!! (I ... (read in full...)

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