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We are rarely intimate anymore but he keeps watching porn! I don't know what to do!

Q.   My boyfriend has been watching an excessive amount of porn, at least 5 times a week.. i have personally caught him with his hands in his pants online early in the morning, normally i sleep in but its been becoming a bigger and bigger problem. we are ...

A.   12 November 2013: " You Wish" thank you!!!!! i never knew about alot of that, i knew that porn has a tendency to desensitize men, but i didnt realize how big of a problem it could really be, hes into a rougher style of sex, at one point, he hit my lower back, hes the ... (read in full...)

I'm getting suspicious -- should I approach this collegue of his?

Q.   hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for years but it has been a rocky road for one reason and another. He has called me by his colleagues name a couple of times recently. The last time was this weekend, I felt very suspicious this time for...

A.   12 November 2013: infidelity for sure, Hes having some sort of relationship with this woman, hes mixed his business with play, dont confront her, what good would it too, even if shes fully aware of you, she clearly does not care. Get rid of him, i can smell his crap ... (read in full...)

We are rarely intimate anymore but he keeps watching porn! I don't know what to do!

Q.   My boyfriend has been watching an excessive amount of porn, at least 5 times a week.. i have personally caught him with his hands in his pants online early in the morning, normally i sleep in but its been becoming a bigger and bigger problem. we are ...

A.   12 November 2013: To Wise owl e.. I love my boyfriend dearly, he is a wonderful and loving man, this is the only issue we are having , i am not bored of him, nor do i find his habits disgusting, its just something i do not understand obviously if i didnt care, i ... (read in full...)

Shouldn't watching porn boost his sexual drive?

Q.   So my boyfriend and i have only been dating for about 5 months, when we first got together, we had a very healthy and consistent sexual relationship as well, it hasnt really been that way, lately we've had sex maybe 3 times a month, and its not ...

A.   28 May 2013: We've been together unofficially much longer than the 5 months, we are very happy together, be both do not like being apart, we really are that good, i looked at the link, very detailed and it made alot of sense, so thank you very much :) t... (read in full...)

I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls!

Q.   Hello everyone! Recently I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls. He apologized and is extremely upset so he promises never to do it again. He deleted all the girls phone numbers that were in his phone.I want to trust him but ...

A.   27 May 2013: If i were in your position, i would distance yourself from him, these girls will message him, he will most likely respond, and delete the messages, thats my opinion from being in the same situation, honestly id tell him you want a break, he ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has female friend that he is entirely too close to

Q.   So ill be honest, its a bit messed up, My boyfriend has a friend hes entirely too close to, She calls and texts him constantly, he makes plans to go places we didnt intend on because she gave him the invite. At first she wasnt a problem, then the ...

A.   15 January 2013: Daisy Thank you, its tough i just posted again something going on, Hes currently sleeping with someone, after he had given me hope, now even as lightly as im taking his wrongdoings, he still will not speak to me, ive been such a wreck i even ran to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has female friend that he is entirely too close to

Q.   So ill be honest, its a bit messed up, My boyfriend has a friend hes entirely too close to, She calls and texts him constantly, he makes plans to go places we didnt intend on because she gave him the invite. At first she wasnt a problem, then the ...

A.   11 January 2013: Well we broke up and to those of you who were kind THANK YOU, This girl was actually someone different than the last one. and he even admitted to me he was interested in her, i lost my temper, gave him his things and told him i dont even know why i ... (read in full...)

No trust for my boyfriend anymore because he ignores anything that bothers me, and now I suspect him of cheating....what should I do?

Q.   I’d like to know how you guys think I should address this situation or maybe even what I should do…im also sorry it's soo long. So When I first got into a relationship with my boyfriend we decided it would be a completely honest relationship and...

A.   9 January 2013: Code warrior, you shouldnt be so insenitive. She spoke her peace from her own perpective. And clearly seeing how former ex's went through the same issues, it isnt a change needed on their ends, obviously it should be made on his, he is in denial ... (read in full...)

No trust for my boyfriend anymore because he ignores anything that bothers me, and now I suspect him of cheating....what should I do?

Q.   I’d like to know how you guys think I should address this situation or maybe even what I should do…im also sorry it's soo long. So When I first got into a relationship with my boyfriend we decided it would be a completely honest relationship and...

A.   8 January 2013: I am assuming these magazines are pornography? Well in my personal opinion, i dont particularly agree with the excessive magazine reading. But men are a bit strange, many have a sex drive which is mentally and visually stimulated, they "learn" so to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and his best female friend are too close for my comfort. What can I do?

Q.   My Boyfriend and his best friend are really close, too close for my own comfort zone, she texts him saying she loves him and he does the same, at all hours of the night at that. They are both really touchy with one another and it drives me crazy an...

A.   8 January 2013: Thank you everyone, i plan to talk to him this evening, and tell him that we need to take some time away from one another, untill he can sort his priorities out, i cannot deal with the stress and the heartache nor do i deserve it, im nearly 21 yrs ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and his best female friend are too close for my comfort. What can I do?

Q.   My Boyfriend and his best friend are really close, too close for my own comfort zone, she texts him saying she loves him and he does the same, at all hours of the night at that. They are both really touchy with one another and it drives me crazy an...

A.   8 January 2013: I talked to him today, he actually threatend me to break up with me if i continue to complain about it, he says he isn't doing anything wrong and that im allowing ghosts of boyfriends past to rule my judgement. Yes i have been scarred, but what he'... (read in full...)

My relationship doesn't seem to be moving forwards. I don't want to push him but should I keep on waiting for him to decide what he wants?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly three and a half years. We lived together for about six months early last year but I left because he asked for space, so fair enough. But we have stayed in the relationship since. But I am looking to ...

A.   7 January 2013: Generally when a guy says " I need space" that's actuallly guy for "I want out". You've been together for a long time and he doesn't seem to have made an effort to further anything. I feel its a lost cause, stick with your independence, and mayb... (read in full...)

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