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Second time sex hurt even worse that first time sex! What will happen on my third try?

Q.   ok so i'm 17 and sex for the first time about 2 months ago. kind of towards the end of november beginning of december and it hurt like hell. Tonight i had sex again with the same guy, it was my 2nd time and it hurt WAYYYYYY worse than my first time. ...

A.   3 January 2011: Every thing Aunt Honesty said :)... (read in full...)

Not sure if I'm satisfying her?

Q.   I've only had sex with one girl and that's currently my wife, but she has other partners before me whom she had sexual intercourse with. I'm only curious to know if the whole penis size ordeal actually came from the porn industry or if its really ...

A.   3 January 2011: Thank you guys for your answers and support. I do please my girl in a loving manner and do more than just penetrate her lol I do understand that you have to be loving (which I am) to warm her up and get her in the mood. i love it personally, but me ... (read in full...)

I have a strong desire for my 18 year old cousin. What should I do?

Q.   I'm 16 I have a cousin who is 18 . Many times when I'm by their house she would sometimes have on some boy shorts or somthing tight. Sometimes she catches me looking at her, but most of the time she doesn't say nothing and I have a huge attraction ...

A.   3 January 2011: You can send her a letter. Just tell her so that it's out of your mind. Remember there is lots of girls out there.... (read in full...)

Help me sort out this mess...

Q.   Hi well my ex boyfriend and i were really cool after we broke up. then he started liking me again! it got really annoying so i hooked him up with one of my best friends which i think was my biggest mistake. me and my ex realize that we still have ...

A.   3 January 2011: Ask yourself this, Is my friends friendship more important or is the ex-bf more important? In the long run who is still gonna be there you? Also, who does he love? you or her? Personally I wouldn't involve myself with someone who i dont have any ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is doing things she would not let me do. What's going on?

Q.   my gilfriend met my mate off facebook and met him in town, and i think a bit of flirting - because i went with them, and she is going to town with him tomorrow as well. i wont to meet my friend which is a girl, with her friends. And my girlfriend ...

A.   3 January 2011: I go through some similar issues with my wife whom I recently married. However the issue becomes different since I'm married. Every time she tries to do something like go out with a male friend I tell her she can't because it isn't right for a ... (read in full...)

I have a strong desire for my 18 year old cousin. What should I do?

Q.   I'm 16 I have a cousin who is 18 . Many times when I'm by their house she would sometimes have on some boy shorts or somthing tight. Sometimes she catches me looking at her, but most of the time she doesn't say nothing and I have a huge attraction ...

A.   3 January 2011: Talk to her about it. There are many women out there son, you can find finer girls that aren't related to you, but you should still talk to her so you can get it out of your mind.... (read in full...)

I was told by my GF :"Girls don't like it when guys last long, they get sore and it hurts down there". Really???

Q.   Hi, Happy New Year by the way! So, when I have sex with my girlfriend, first I pleasure her for about 7 minutes until she finishes, then we have sex and I last for about 1 minute on a good night. Now, once I kept "doing it" for a while after I wa...

A.   2 January 2011: I think that the only reason she gets hurt it's probably because she get's dried down there. Do some foreplay and while doing intercourse try doing things that keep her wet. It could simply be talking into her ear and telling her how much you love ... (read in full...)

My wife doesn't want sex and I don't want an affair

Q.   My wife has not wanted sex for over 2 years. Should i consider a prostitute. I do not want an affair....

A.   2 January 2011: I'd say talk to her and see if there is anything wrong. usually it could be because you're not warming her up. Maybe she just want's you to make the move first, be romantic. Worse comes to worse, she maybe stopped loving you or she is having an ... (read in full...)

He lies about smoking weed!

Q.   Hi.. I have this problem with my boyfriend... He constantly lies to me about weed. I am so against it and i tried to forbid him of using it.. He always hangs out with his friend that smoke weed, and he claims that he does not. I convinced him that ...

A.   2 January 2011: Personally I think that he's not doing anything wrong by smoking weed. Not telling you about it is so that he doesn't upset you. He should come clean, but the truth is it's not like he's out there cheating. you yourself just mentioned that he proves ... (read in full...)

If he really loved her he wouldn't cheat on her with me right?

Q.   I am extremely torn and confused over a guy that I was with 8 years ago for 1.5 years. Because of certain circumstances we had broken it off and recently about 4 months ago he came back into my life. He remembers everything we have done, all the ...

A.   1 January 2011: I suggest you walk away and let it be. If he left your life a couple of years ago it was for a reason. Look I recently was cheated by my wife with her "best friend" which was a friend i knew since i was nine. She got used by him though, telling her ... (read in full...)

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