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I want to finish with my boyfriend
Q. I dont know where to start really... My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now and sinse i was 16. He was my first boyfriend, love and evrything even though we are both young recently we have started looking to move into our on place, ...
A. 14 June 2007: Honnesty. You need to tell him how you feel and do it before you start getting tied into living with him.
There is nothing wrong with you for feeling like this, even though he's trying to tell you otherwise. You need to simply say what you feel... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me, or am I just wasting my time?
Q. Okay. So, I met this guy at a grad party a couple of weeks ago, and we started talking for a good hour or so, and I thought he was flirting with me--he had a good many friends at this party and he spent his time there talking with me--he got me a ...
A. 14 June 2007: Hmmm... I would be a little bit confused by all this too. He either likes you, but as a friend. Or, he does like you in the way you want!
The only thing I could suggest right now is spending a bit more time with this guy as friends. I dont honn... (read in full...)
Are all women are like this?
Q. My fiance would only only accept me if i was nice to her all the time or no complaining to her, get angry on her and keep entertaining her with talking interesting things. Are these unrealistic expectations on her part or all women are like this?...
A. 14 June 2007: haha yes! just kidding.
As long as youre sure you genuinely havent done something which would upset her (ie: you just arent nice to her ever), then I believe its her problem. Yes, women can be a pain, I should know! (men can be too may I add.) But ... (read in full...)
I liked her and hoped for a relationship! Now she's dropped contact..what can I do?
Q. Well, a year ago, I lived in Australia. I went to a nice school. I had a crush on a chick there. I would have asked her out, but she had already shut down about 12 guys. So, in order to stand a better, chance, I became her friend for 2 years. But ...
A. 14 June 2007: Ahh this is why playing games isnt a good idea. hehe. I would definately suggest that you don't try to make her jealous. Ive had someone try that with me and to be honnest it was irritating and ended up costing our relationship.
But you need to thin... (read in full...)
She's been excessively distant, and is obviously being thrown by the constant need for approval and reassurance... help!
Q. Hey people, I was just hoping for an opinion here. I met my current gf about 6 or 7 wekks ago, and she lives in a different city so I only get to see her some weekends. I've recetly come to the realisation that I have some underlying personali...
A. 14 June 2007: Hi there, Im glad youre taking steps to get your personal issues sorted out. A lot of people dont have the guts to admit when there is a problem.
I agree with what has already been written here, You may have pushed her away. The best thing you can ... (read in full...)
Her ex-boyfriend is back on the scene, offering a house and stability, all things I cannot give to her now...
Q. I wonder if someone could offer me good advice? Deep breath, as I don't know where to start with this one :). I'm 26 and have been having a rather hard time of it for the last nine months. I met a girl on the first day of a university course we were ...
A. 14 June 2007: Hey, sorry seems like ur going through a rough time right now. Reading this though, has kind of made me think thats its not the ex boyfriend who is causing the heart ache. If you both love each other as much as you say, he's not going to be an ... (read in full...)
I love her but she's ignoring me on MSN messnger to flirt with another guy! What should I do?
Q. Am i being selfish for wanting more? i love my girlfriend of 3 months. shes everything i don't normally look 4 in a girl thats y its working so well i think anyways. in the past month shes seems 2 be ignoreing me more than ever. i tal...
A. 6 June 2007: Well, seems like youre in a hard situation at the moment! I think I'll start by saying that moving in together when things are like this might not be the best idea. It seems to me like shes got something going on in her head, but I wouldnt say it i... (read in full...)
My gf of one month said if she's pregnant shes going get rid of the baby! I don't want that..how do we deal with this?
Q. My Girlfriend of a month thinks she maybe pregnant she told me tonight if she is pregnant shes gonna get rid of the baby well she said " Honestly i dont know what to do but if i was i dont think ill be able 2 go throw with this " in 3 weeks t...
A. 19 April 2007: I think that if youve been going out for only one month its far too early to be trying for a child. If she is pregnant, then you need to sit down and seriouslt talk it out. She might just be scared! Dont rush things, I hope things work out for you ... (read in full...)
My ex said he still likes me but tonight I saw him kissing someone else!!!
Q. I need advice and asap! normally I'm good at giving out advice but this time I'm stuck. My ex contacted me and said he still likes me but he had a girlfriend at the time, now they have broken up but i keep seeing them together and tonight I saw them ...
A. 4 April 2007: Hey huni, Ive been in a situation where I had to watch my ex be with someone else, and I know its not nice.
Trust me: your life is not over!!
If I were you right now, I would try not to see him/talk to him as often (or at all for now), because ... (read in full...)
After we broke up he said he still loved me but now...the past 2 months he sends me hate messages! How do I move on?
Q. My Boyfriend broke up with me on January 23rd 2007. He always told me he loved me and even after he ended it he still said he loved me and always would and said he wanted to get back together later on. The past two months though all i've had is hate ...
A. 24 March 2007: Hello! I have been in exactly this situation. I know it hurts like hell now, but I promise its going to get better. The best thing you can do is stop speaking to him (if you see him just be polite, say hello and walk off). Its going to be hard, but ... (read in full...)
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