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My Ex-Wife's New "Friend" With Whom She Appears To Have A Relationship Smokes Pot Regularly...And We Have A Young Son.

Q.   Simply put folks, the above is what's going on. I found this out quite by accident and the source of the information is irrefutable. When, I in a roundabout way asked her about any bad habits he might have she straight up lied to me when I asked ...

A.   26 December 2010: Thank you for your responses. @Miamine, I am well aware of the prevalence of pot in our society. The fact that it is common does not make it right and last I looked, it is not legal anywhere. This is more than simply concern over drug addition... (read in full...)

Is my husband responsible for my child who was conceived during our marriage?

Q.   I had an affair and became pregnant. I need to find out what the laws are in massachusetts, pertaining to custody. I know for sure that this child is not my husbands but the guy I cheated with. I need to find out if legally my husband is responsible ...

A.   19 February 2009: I'm a lawyer...in NY, however. In most jurisdictions, a child conceived during a marriage is presumed to be the child of the husband. You will likely have to bring a paternity action and get the equivalent of what we in NY call an Order of ... (read in full...)

How to survive a sexless marriage?? Should I cheat?

Q.   I am 32 years old and married to a man who never wants to have sex anymore. He can take it or leave it. I know he takes care of himself (porn) and we have had a million talks and fights about it. It has gotten to the point where I refuse to ...

A.   19 February 2009: I disagree that he has a porn addiction. That is too easy of an explanation. The problem is that he is likely not comfortable in your relationship. The porn is simply an outlet for that discomfort. Men tend not to have as much (or any) porn when ... (read in full...)

I slept with my boss, should I resign?

Q.   I´ve been really,really stupid. Last week, after a business meeting, he offered me a ride home. We had been flirting about a month. In the car we started to kiss and he invited me to his home, because his wife was out of town. We had quite a lot of ...

A.   18 February 2009: This has the makings of a sexual harassment case. Do yourself a favor ask for a transfer to another department or find a job in another company. Nothing good can come from this.... (read in full...)

Do I ride it out and see how it goes, and go to Japan with her?

Q.   Hi Everyone, Where do I start. Well I met this girl a while ago through a friend after I had gone through a rather emotional patch. She's Japanese and 30 years old - and I'm 23. She can't speak english very well at all and I communicate with her...

A.   18 February 2009: I know this answer is rather late as I just joined but I would say you should go for it if you have developed serious feelings for her. Being an American man engaged to a Japanese woman, I can tell you that they have a tendency to fall in love very ... (read in full...)

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