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She lost interest in me because I let her pay for her part of the meal on our first date!

Q.   I had a situation with a woman I really liked, and need you opinion on this. I 've met this girl in a building that I work at. She works for a different company, and I saw her several times at lunch before we started talking. We just talked for ...

A.   8 January 2013: I had no idea people were so old-fashioned about dates, when they (speaking "they" in general here) are so liberal about pre-marital sex. I hate it when guys pay on first dates. Samantha Jones from the TV show Sex and the City once said "money... (read in full...)

My parents will not allow me to see my LDR without a chaperon. Are they outdated in their thinking?

Q.   This is going to be a bit long, so bear with me... My boyfriend (age 22) and I (23) have been dating a little over a year now. I moved out when I was seventeen to go to a university some distance from my house, but I am now living with my p...

A.   8 January 2013: Dear anon_e_mouse, Thank you for your quick response! I feel a bit more reassured to hear that I sound trustworthy enough. I am well aware that my parents love me, and all they want is my success; this is why I always question whether I'm just... (read in full...)

I'm almost 21 never had a boyfriend and feel like such a loser

Q.   Hello I would like to ask for help to determine why I'm so lonely. Okay to start I'm about to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend I feel like such a loser! I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what? I have a low self esteem and I also only ...

A.   8 January 2013: First of all, there's nothing wrong with not having had a boyfriend at age 21! I hadn't had one until I was approaching 23. Just remember, it's not WHEN that's important, but WHO. That being said, weight and self-esteem are related in this ... (read in full...)

Met him on online gaming site. What should I keep in mind? Is this too good to be true?

Q.   I met this guy on an online game site and he is 3 years older...I really like him but I just got out of a serious relationship and I don't want to move to fast and mess it up. He is really great and he gets me but he lives 3 states away. he alre...

A.   8 January 2013: My relationship also began at a gaming site. We talked for 9 months, exchanged e-mails and photographs, before we actually met. He lives in a different country from me, so the distance is even worse! How does this work? With lots of waiting and p... (read in full...)

She suggested we take things slowly after the first date. What do I do now?

Q.   Hi all... I just took a girl on a date recently. We had exchanged numbers and we had previously gotten to know more about each other before via text message, so we had common ground and things to talk about. I don’t claim to be the best looking...

A.   8 January 2013: Do take my answer with a grain of salt because I generally disagree with most dating advices. Have you tried explaining to her what you just wrote here now? I'm fairly open so I might appreciate your honesty, if I were you; I'd at least feel ob... (read in full...)

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