Help me win my crush!
Q. Ok, I've just very recently started at a new, temporary job, and there's a girl there that I'm really keen on, she's 100% GF material, and I'm actually 80% sure that she's keen on me too! Problem is, messing things up with the fairer sex is my ...
A. 1 June 2014: Thanks for your response Mark1978 Duly noted on the whole 'girl's taken, move on' aspect of things... I just wanted to say, I mean, I don't know how I come across on my message but I actually do have some experience in the ways of love..... (read in full...)
Help me win my crush!
Q. Ok, I've just very recently started at a new, temporary job, and there's a girl there that I'm really keen on, she's 100% GF material, and I'm actually 80% sure that she's keen on me too! Problem is, messing things up with the fairer sex is my ...
A. 1 June 2014: Well, I guess you guys are right about the whole BF/not dating me thing, but I'm crushing on this girl dangit and I can't help saying 'but still'...I have considered the whole "likes the attention" angle, but then again there are at least two other ... (read in full...)
How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 26 December 2013: STATUS UPDATE: Hmm, first off, merry christmas guys. K, so this girl I'm talking about said that she wanted to see me and give me a christmas hug after i texted her a simple "merry xmas" (don't look at me weird; round here where we live the norm is ... (read in full...)
How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 24 December 2013: Thanks for the feedback, guys. Well WiseOwlE you do have some points in there...since I've been trying to do the whole 'girlfriend/boyfriend' approach it's only natural to expect things to unfurl slowly now isn't it...problem is, that doesn't really ... (read in full...)
How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 24 December 2013: Ha! Well the ship has chartered new waters on this whole situation...only to strand itself once again on a different rock...how? Read on to find out... After the 2 week limit she had mentioned was over, I texted her (because why the hell not?)..... (read in full...)
How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 8 December 2013: Well, Tisha, this may add even more fuel to the whole "man-whoring" thing, but I pretty much give it to them. Now, I will probably come across like an asshole for saying this but I'm a very private person...I need my space, I don't like being ... (read in full...)
How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 7 December 2013: Thanks guys, for the extra feedback. *WiseOwle*, you mentioned that you were a hardass on your first post. Well, that's always you (you had counseled me in a previous post). Might consider chilling out a bit there, man. BTW, I did ask her for her ... (read in full...)
When dating, does it REALLY matter when you get intimate?
Q. This is mostly aimed at the men on here but women, feel free to give your opinion and experiences as well. I was wondering when dating and hoping to turn it into a relationship, does it really matter how soon the couple has sex? I have read articles ...
A. 7 December 2013: Speaking as a man, I've gotta say, wait for a number of dates before you get intimate. There's something about giving it right away which will make them not take you seriously...... (read in full...)
How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 6 December 2013: Thanks for the ongoing feedback girls. Well, so you're saying that I subconsciously act like a manwhore. Well, in my defense, there were practical considerations that can explain that (like the fact that i used to live elsewhere on weekdays). Why ... (read in full...)
How do I keep screwing up the transition from dating to relationship?
Q. Hi there folks. I'm going crazy over here 'cause it seems that whenever I REALLY like someone (like her in a gf kind of way) I mess it up in some unknown, mysterious way. Other girls I'll have no problem, I'll half-ass it and still have something ...
A. 5 December 2013: Thanks for the feedback, guys. I know I may come across as conceited, but I just mention that stuff 'cause I wanna get across the fact that I think that my failure to find love is down to some 'head' thing and not me being an unconfident derelict ... (read in full...)
Is this salvageable? Did I mess it up?
Q. Hi. I'm a bit of an awkward, weird guy, and I've been looking for love for quite some time (Ive only been in 1 LTR 4 years ago, and in the interim its only been sporadic hookups), except I always manage to f*ck it up somehow! Here's the latest, ...
A. 21 March 2013: Jesus christ WiseOwle, I don't know what spot of personal turmoil you're going through but you need to chill out and lay off the condescending bullsh*t. Contrary to your own misinformed belief, I don't have a problem attracting women; it's just, im ... (read in full...)
Is this salvageable? Did I mess it up?
Q. Hi. I'm a bit of an awkward, weird guy, and I've been looking for love for quite some time (Ive only been in 1 LTR 4 years ago, and in the interim its only been sporadic hookups), except I always manage to f*ck it up somehow! Here's the latest, ...
A. 18 March 2013: Thanks for your feedback WiseOwlE and Tisha-1. Believe you me WiseOwlE, I've tried working on the whole interpersonal thing, to no avail...I mean I'm kinda old (well Im in my mid 20s) and it looks more and more like i'm just not meant to be mr c... (read in full...)
Is this salvageable? Did I mess it up?
Q. Hi. I'm a bit of an awkward, weird guy, and I've been looking for love for quite some time (Ive only been in 1 LTR 4 years ago, and in the interim its only been sporadic hookups), except I always manage to f*ck it up somehow! Here's the latest, ...
A. 18 March 2013: Ha. I guess I deserve that. Yeah I know I it looked like i haven't the slightest idea of basic dating etiquette (when I actually do have)...and thats kind of a large hurdle to cross...but in my defense, I gotta say I had a really bad dating ... (read in full...)
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