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Every time I sleep with him I fall more in love with him! Advice needed, please!

Q.   I've been sleeping with this guy on and off for about 6 years when I say on and off I mean 2-3 time a year. Each time I've seen him I've fell more and more In love with him. The only problem is he's married with a kid, this is where it gets ...

A.   24 July 2014: of course he is going to tell u things to make u believe he likes u. U are a sex object to him and thata all u will ever be. If he.wantrd u he would have left his wife. He probably has u, and 10 other ladis on the side as well as hes wife. dont be ... (read in full...)

Would any man even be interested in a woman of only five feet if she is not extremely slim ?

Q.   I'm recently back in the dating game after a long relationship but finding myself worried about my height . I only five feet tall and a little plump. I lost considerable weight through weight loss surgery and am happy with where I'm at now . I am ...

A.   21 July 2014: hey. im only 150cm too. :) maybe 148cm. haha. Lots of guys like short girls, and if ur in a healthy weight, thats all that matters. Dont lose weight just to get a guy. Just be ur self. If ur doctor said u in healthy weight then trust him. There is ... (read in full...)

Why would a girl that I hurt so much want to meet up after a couple years just 'to see how things were'?

Q.   Please advice on this would be great!! I don't want to be swayed by the lads incase I'm wrong and do something stupid again. I dated this girl for a while just over 2 years ago, a long time now and she didn't know how strong my feelings for her...

A.   21 July 2014: guys are always wrong. u are wrong and ur friends are wrong. If she wanted u bak or talk about what happened, she wouldnt wait two years. O meet her and give her credit for WANTING to put the,past and ur behaviour behind her.... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong to hug him when he doesn't want a girlfriend?

Q.   Hi so this boy I like likes me back I asked him back and he said no as he didn't want a gf at the moment! So my friend said to him that I wanted to hug him and thas is sorta true... Anyway he said he wants to hug to!! My question is would I hu...

A.   21 July 2014: I hug my male and female friends alk the time. Nothing wrong with it at all. ... (read in full...)

Should I ask if he slept with his female friend who is about to visit?

Q.   Just starting a new relationship with a guy and it's going great. He has a female friend who he's been friends with for about four years, she lives abroad and they met online. She's coming over for a visit soon and I don't know what to feel. They ...

A.   20 July 2014: Its in the past if they did sleep together. everyone has ex partners, and for all u kNow they are just friend. Im sure u will meet her and realiae u have nothing to worry about.. ... (read in full...)

I want to be doubly sure that my behaviour around my baby sister is appropriate

Q.   Okay so I am female and 13 years old, and she's still just a little one, six months old. I was wondering if it is appropriate to kiss your little sister on the cheek/forehead? We had a family member living with us years ago that attempted to molest ...

A.   20 July 2014: Perfectly ok. As is hugging. ... (read in full...)

In love with my English teacher but now find she likes another. How do I manage this situation?

Q.   i am 14 now,in love with my english teacher. Actually i really care for her. I feel for her. Her sadness makes me sad too. Whenever i see her there are butterflies in my stomach.i stammer while talking to her.i just want her to be my best friend...

A.   19 July 2014: I agree with Wiseowl. be careful what you say. You are implying here that your teacher likes your friend, as more than a student. i agree, that if you are crushing on someone, you start to fantasise, and are imaginging she likes your friend more... (read in full...)

His temper is threatening to spoil this relationship!!

Q.   I'm so stuck with this. I don't know if I'm being over picky or if I'm being sensible. My partner of 2 years is brilliant. No, better than that, he's incredible! We met a few years ago through mutual friends and he made it obvious he liked me but ...

A.   18 July 2014: if he's pushing you now, even if he stopped, then it's only a matter of time before he hits you, punches you and threatens you. tell him he needs counselling to work through his issues..... (read in full...)

I have been invited to spend time with my Bf's elderly grandmother. What can I do there so don't feel like a freeloader?

Q.   I'm going away for the Summer, to my boyfriend's grandma place. She's quite the old lady (90 I think) and lives in a very, very small town by the river (the whole town has about 20 houses). She owns a farm, so I'll be getting home cooked meal...

A.   15 July 2014: Maybe u could take a hamper with chocolates, wine, a few magazines, make dinner or breakfast to give hera break. im rure she would appreciate the guesture. ... (read in full...)

Why do I have to be my own mother? What do I do with my real one?

Q.   I cannot live with my father because of legal issues between my siblings. I have moved out of there and into my mothers house. She has cheated on my father and continues to have this affair which includes extremely late nights where i cannot reach ...

A.   14 July 2014: you are legally old enough to move out. im assuming if you study you would get study money. move out and just look after your self. you cant blame your mother for not looking after you when you are legally old enough to move out. it also might do ... (read in full...)

Do girls REALLY fondle each other to attract male attention?

Q.   There is this guy at work, who I will call "John". John is a real chick magnet. Every girl, whether workmate or customer, is attracted to him. E.g. while I am talking to a female customer, she snatches looks at John, and many times smiles to him. ...

A.   13 July 2014: i believe girls do it coz they know it turns guys,on. the guy thinks he mite get two chicks at once, which guys want. how ever, it,will backfire, coz he will only see them as a play toy. And girls,arent turned on with guys touching each other. its ... (read in full...)

I'm worried by his taste in porn

Q.   Hello, well I been with my boyfriend for 8/9 yrs we have 2 kids and very active in this relationship as far as intimacy and time together. I'm 31 he's 33 I'm white he's black. Well here it is, he watches nothing i mean nothing but ebony granny porn. ...

A.   12 July 2014: everyone has there fantasy. My bfs is fucking a pregnate chick. doesnt mean he will go out and do that. Ur bfs is grannies. doesnt mean he will go out and do that either. relax and trust him. ... (read in full...)

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