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hey i am a 16 yr old guy and I will either waste your time asking questions or posting answers

Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?

Q.   I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for ...

A.   27 October 2008: Its your choice. Its your baby. Your boyfriend may not be there forever. Try to understand that. So basically just follow your heart or talk to your parents and see what they think... (read in full...)

She can't date me until she's 16! What can we do?

Q.   i have liked my friend for 1 year or less but she cant go out with anyone till she is 16 and we r the same age wat should i do should i take her out to the movies but not for a date...

A.   22 October 2008: Yes. Taking her to the movies as just a friend would be the best thing to do. Or you could try reasoning with her parents but that will probably not work out.... (read in full...)

I want to know what's up with him and why won't he talk to me???

Q.   The other day I was hanging out with a really good guy friend of mine. We were having tons of fun, but suddenly he leaned over and kissed me. It was a lip-kiss, and it was really quick. But now he won't talk to me! Whenever I see him, he'll turn ...

A.   12 October 2008: Its because he doesnt know how you reacted. If you like him then tell him otherwise ask him what the kiss was about and tell him that you only think of him as a friend.... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to admit my true feelings for him!

Q.   help, well i shy when it comes to admitting my feelings, i dont no why, but i think to myself i will tell him how i really feel, then when it comes to it i clam up and just say i dont feel anything, but if i do tht much longer im going to lose him, ...

A.   11 October 2008: Atleast you are with him. Ppl like me cant even muster the guts to ask a girl out and I dont know why. I huess it comes as you mature. ANyway on to your problem. You need some confidence. How about meeting him after you won some game or somethin... (read in full...)

What do I do about this boy I like? It gets me depressed...

Q.   I am 14. I like this person in my fourth hour and we are both in High school. Everyday it is the same thing i look forward to that hour that i get to be with him in but i become extreamly depressed when that hour is over and i know i won't get to ...

A.   11 October 2008: If you are getting depressed then there is only one solution - Distraction Distract yourself and it WILL work. Join a club or find a new hobby. Trust me, it will totally work.... (read in full...)

How much do looks matter to guys?

Q.   Do they care a lot about how you look? I know they matter at least some, but what if you have a lot of acne? Would not looking super-pretty or having acne (even if you were otherwise pretty) prevent guys from approaching you or asking you out?...

A.   11 October 2008: Eat healthy and take care of yourself. The other posters said it all. And if that was you who posted a reply saying that you dont have a bf and need one then just know that you are not the only one who does though in my case I need a gf.... (read in full...)

I need help on how I should kiss for the first time??

Q.   I have been on a few dates with this boy and he started to kiss me the other night and I kind of freaked out because I have never snogged anyone before and everyone tells me just relax and you will know what to do because it comes naturally, but it ...

A.   10 October 2008: If he says you were uptight then you were. The next time you are with him just act normally and have fun and if the moment comes just kiss him. I know you said it wasn't natural but that's because you knew it was happening. If you are having fun ... (read in full...)

I cannot seem to stop watchin porn! Please help

Q.   I have been watching porn sine 6 years and when i am trying to come out of it i am not able to do so. Every time i think of not watching it , but again i watch it. really i terribly feel bad.Need your help badly....

A.   10 October 2008: Porn is an addiction like smoking. You need an inspiration to quit but if you don't have one then: * Install parental filters in your browser * Delete your porn collection * Don't think of anything sexy during the day * Don't allow yourself... (read in full...)

How do I get my dad to allow me to have a boyfriend? All my friends are allowed to date!

Q.   so there is this boy and we hang out all the time! i am between the age of 12-14 and he is the same age! it seems like he really likes me but i asked my dad if i could have a boyfriend and he said no your too young but all my friends are aloud to ...

A.   10 October 2008: OK I know you already got some answers so let me just add my 2 cents 1) Wait a little. Find out if he likes you as much as you like him before asking your dad 2) Introduce him to your parents as a friend and have him over for dinner or lunch or ... (read in full...)

If I was pregnant, how do I tell my parents and my boyfriend?

Q.   I am 15 years old. I had sex 5 days before I started my period. My parents are really religious in there Christian beliefs. If I was to be pregnant, how would I get by with telling them? and how would I tell my boyfriend?...

A.   10 October 2008: They will get angry at first but after the initial scoldings they should calm down. They may ask you some questions and answer them all TRUTHFULLY. Once they know that you are scared and regret what you did they will be even more convince... (read in full...)

Do I go out with him? I still want my mates to respect me...

Q.   help, what do you think i should do.??? well im sorta like in love with the only person i thought i wud never ever fall in love with, and im worried what my mates will say as i have told them i would never ever get with someone like him, but now ...

A.   10 October 2008: They should understand. Tell them how much you like him and they should understand. THey should respect you for telling them and if they dont then they are idiots. If they still tease you then tell them that its hurting you that they are not supp... (read in full...)

This girl in my class who, seemingly hates me, I sat in her seat and wouldn't move, just to tick her off, she threatened to mess things up between me and my boyfriend, do you think she will do it, and did I do the right thing?

Q.   There's this girl Jenny (not her real name) in my class. I think she hates me. Well the other day I sat in her "seat " and told me to move. Jenny: "get out of my seat, Maggi" Me: "I dont see your name on it" Jenny: Maggi if you out now I w...

A.   10 October 2008: First of all making people mad at you is not a smart thing. If this girl really hates you then she will try to do something to you and if she is willing to go this far then I would stay away from her as much as possible. Also tell your boyfrien... (read in full...)

How can I start up a conversation with this cute girl??

Q.   Id like to talk to a cute girl but I dont know where or how to start one. Im a freshman and shes a sophomore, we don't have any of the same classes, but I see her from time to time, and we go in the same direction after school. So basically I want...

A.   10 October 2008: First find out if she has a boyfriend or not. If she doesnt then all you have to do is find some mutual friends and go on from there.... (read in full...)

I really want to date my friend but don't want to make an enemy of my other friend.

Q.   I have feelings 4 my best friend and i was planning to tell her soon but i found out that she likes one of my friends and they went out but they stopped cause he was actin like a jerk. She told me that she still has feelings for him and i am sure he ...

A.   17 November 2007: thx..........i really hope she gets over him... (read in full...)

How can I tell my best friend I really like her?

Q.   I have a crush on my best friend. I have been friends for a long time. She doesn't know that I have feelings for her. What do I do??????...

A.   3 November 2007: okie...........thx alot........i guess i will have to do it soon............. (read in full...)

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