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I'm trying to lose weight.

I have little or no interest in things- is this temporary or will it persist?

Q.   I have a psychotic mental disorder that had me very busy in delusional thinking until just recently when I finally found the right medication at age 30. My life isn't a disaster, but I managed to make mistakes and mess it up temporarily. I've...

A.   5 December 2008: Thank you Aunt Em. I still have the same problem here a month later but it's not as bad. I appreciate your input.... (read in full...)

Am I doing the right thing keeping this to myself?

Q.   I started a relationship with a guy thats much younger than me and when we started dating we were both in seperate relationships at the time but those relationships ended and now me and him are in what i thought was a committed relationship. ...

A.   31 October 2008: Sure he could have been kissing somebody. Was he too drunk to remember what happened? Did he "black out?" People cheat all the time, and he already started his relationship with you comfortable "cheating" on you (though you weren't committed). ... (read in full...)

I have a funny smell coming from my vagina.

Q.   Heya, this has only just started but me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and just recently after we have had sex and got up the next morning I have got a really funny smell coming from my vaginal area. What's wrong with me, help it's ...

A.   31 October 2008: You probably have a yeast infection.... (read in full...)

Questions about Herpes and outbreaks

Q.   Can a person have herpes if they have never had an outbreak at all? or is it a must for someone with herpes to have some kind of outbreak? how long does it take for them to appear?...

A.   28 October 2008: As I've read, about half of the cases of herpes simplex are subclinical. This means there are no skin lesions, and the infected person has no way of knowing besides taking a blood test. Usually you'll notice symptoms in 2 to 12 days after exposure ... (read in full...)

I'm HIV positive and I'm only 16!!!

Q.   I'm 16 and I've been having sex since I was 11 I was always on the pill but never used condoms I recently found out that I have HIV and I don't know what to say to my mum, she will kill me! I thought I was pregnant but the results came back as that ...

A.   28 October 2008: You poor thing- I don't have any problems this big. You're only a baby. You should tell your mom immediately and take whatever punishment she has for you. She'll find out anyway. Come clean to her. Your baby is probably fine. Upon birth ... (read in full...)

Why do some girls go out with losers?

Q.   I found out yesterday that this girl I'm in love with likes this total loser, no one really likes him. This happened before too when my ex had history with a loser and got back together with him. I'm a cool guy, I have lots of friends, and I h...

A.   28 October 2008: I'm glad to hear that some girls dig losers. I would be called a loser by some right now. I'm at a low in my life. I got a degree in computer science but did nothing with it, and since it's from 2004 it's too old. Of course I did so much ... (read in full...)

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