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How can I make him care about me and miss me?

Q.   This guy and I have met 7 months ago. It's a long distance relationship. We've fallen in love, and even talked about getting married in the future. I told myself not to get too attached to this guy, because I went through a really bad traumatizing ...

A.   18 December 2012: For a start, try missing his call. To make it easier, switch off the sound on the mobile. And then give it a good wait before calling him back (ideally he should call first). Give some nice funny cheerful reason about missing the call and chat abo... (read in full...)

After a week on talking online he says he loves me and wants to marry me?

Q.   I recently placed a personal ad saying i m looking for a mate, I had over 20 response , most of the guys were playing or seeking sex so I finally came across a guy who sound great anyways we chated though email then he gave me his number , we ...

A.   18 December 2012: Try Skype calls with video, ask more about him and his life, family, aspirations. You can see if he is a fruitcake pretty soon. Or you won't like how he looks or his attitude. Talking about marriage just after a few telephone calls - well this is ... (read in full...)

When I mention forplay he cringes. How do I encourage him to try to provide more foreplay?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am puzzled how to ask my boyfriend for a foreplay and give him hints on what I want. I am trying to be delicate and not sure if my ways are working. We used to have had great sex, he would always listen to my suggestions and try...

A.   25 October 2012: Thank you all again, you have given a lot of useful information and advice for me to consider. Yet I don't think it's time for me to move on just now, as in normal life he is really caring, supporting and understanding, just something got wrong with ... (read in full...)

Help! I'm scared. This girl in our group already took over one girl's Bf. Now what can I do? Because I think she's after my Bf.

Q.   Hello:) Thanks in advance for your time:) I'm in a relationship, which is going well, and we are both in the same friendship group. All his guy mates, and all my girl mates are all mates! haha, but there is one problem. One of my girl mates...

A.   25 October 2012: I'd say there are two possible behaviour patterns in this situation. 1. Talk to the girl, not the boyfriend. In fact, try to talk with your boyfriend as less as possible about her being flirty/pretty and stuff, because...he might get even inter... (read in full...)

When I mention forplay he cringes. How do I encourage him to try to provide more foreplay?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am puzzled how to ask my boyfriend for a foreplay and give him hints on what I want. I am trying to be delicate and not sure if my ways are working. We used to have had great sex, he would always listen to my suggestions and try...

A.   25 October 2012: Thank you for replying! I will try dice and foreplay with him indeed, dice/cards sounds very interesting. I started to refuse sex, as it is no fun for me when I am not "prepared" but it would frustrate him very much as he says he needs sex, men... (read in full...)

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