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Basically I want to be single, I'm only 15

Q.   My gf and i have been together now for a 1 year and 5 months. I love her but recently i have started to get bored and love her less. Basically i want to be single,im only 15 so i dont want to be with one girl practically all my teenage life. My q...

A.   31 March 2009: Sounds like you are trying to find things wrong with her as the reason you want to break up as opposed to your original post which said it isn't about her, it is about you wanting space. You are trying to make yourself feel better before you have ... (read in full...)

How long do you stay in a sex position before changing?

Q.   Hey everyone...I'm just interested to see what answers I get from this. How long do you people stay in a sex position before changing to another one?...

A.   30 March 2009: The better the sex--- the shorter the commitment to a position-- until the end--- then the position stays--- -but we see how fast we can go and still hold it.... (read in full...)

Help! I have problems with sex!

Q.   Hi, I have been married for two years and I have never been on top during sex!! I just can't do it as it hurts and I can't give my husband oral sex! I did it once but it disgusts me?!!!!!!!!! Is this normal or what ?...

A.   30 March 2009: I think you may need to go to a dr about the hurting on top thing-- there could be something to it--- or maybe you are just so tense you are causing your own pain. Make him sit still and tell him you are going to try, but it has to be slow... he ... (read in full...)

Future spinster written in stone for me!

Q.   I think it was written in stone that I was meant to be alone because I never got asked in my teens and my 20s. Now heading for my 30s, I think I was always meant to be alone. If you think about it, it's true. I never had a boyfriend, it's just ...

A.   30 March 2009: We are what we think about all day long... Start thinking about what you want to be and have and believing in your ability to get it... instead of what you don't and the obstacles facing you. I bet you have so many GORGEOUS qualities-- you... (read in full...)

Just answer the damned questions!!!!

Q.   Hey!! Well I've just have some pretty simple questions that I want to ask. 1. Why do all the good things in life die? Why are they taken away from us when we need them so badly?! 2. Why can't true love be real?! Or is it really and I'm j...

A.   30 March 2009: 1. Why do all the good things in life die? Because we tend to value things that are scarce or fleeting. If it were common or plentiful, it wouldn't seem as special. Glitter and fireworks are considered gorgeous because of contrast to darkness... (read in full...)

I can't seem to accept his past...

Q.   Hi, this may sound silly or selfish, but I have recently got engaged, and I can't seem to accept his past! I know, in the back of my mind, it shouldn't bother me, but for some reason it does. He is the first person I slept with, but his ex was the ...

A.   30 March 2009: No, you aren't stupid. You have certain life-principles that you have stuck to and in the back of your mind you are asking yourself... "Does he have the same standards, principles, ideals... or was their something so incredibly special about that ... (read in full...)

Do you think this can be worth anything or is it just a fantasy?

Q.   Dear agony aunts and uncles here is the situation... last week I had a chat with a high school friend who has been trying to get hold of me... we had nice thoughts until we spoke about dating... so I told him about my life and he told me about hi...

A.   30 March 2009: The things we regret the most in life are the opportunities that we don't take advantage of... not the one's that we did (even if they don't turn out the way that we want). It could definitely be something- you are both at a point where you know... (read in full...)

Basically I want to be single, I'm only 15

Q.   My gf and i have been together now for a 1 year and 5 months. I love her but recently i have started to get bored and love her less. Basically i want to be single,im only 15 so i dont want to be with one girl practically all my teenage life. My q...

A.   30 March 2009: It is going to hurt no matter what- but it will hurt her more if you put it off. You have been with her long enough to know what she views as kindness. Do that.... Take a walk... have a talk... tell her it is a serious one.... give her time to... (read in full...)

What should I do about a potential "False Negative" Pregnancy Test?

Q.   I am NOT using birth control pills, just condoms. I have regular periods but am now 7 weeks late. My breasts are very tender and the areola has become darkened and slightly larger. I do not feel sick at all but I decided to take a pregnancy test ...

A.   30 March 2009: I had a false negative test with my first pregnancy... It lead to me having a miscarriage, since I thought I wasn't, so I kept exerting myself physically. You need to retest. buy a test that comes in a pack of two... no need to get the most exp... (read in full...)

Did he leave me for his friend? Could he be gay?

Q.   Hello, so I was with this guy off and on for 3 years now. We just recently broke up he said it's because I didn't respect him or the relationship, although I did most of the work on it. Anyway my question is could he be gay? Could he have left me ...

A.   30 March 2009: Yes, he could absolutely be gay. Honestly, it sounds quite probable. Everything that you are describing that he has done has gone way past simple experimentation. We all have our curious sides, but it sounds like he was simply using your relat... (read in full...)

My family doesn't approve of the big age gap between me and my guy

Q.   Dear agony aunt, i recently posted a qeustion regarding the same situation but just need a bit more advice Ive been dating a 56 year old man and im 18, weve been together 7months and i have never been happier. At work we dont tell anyone about our...

A.   30 March 2009: Wow. I know a thing or two about age difference, but the difference in my relationship is only about 15 years. You are in a tough spot. Falling in love is so tough... It is one of those things that makes you loose sight of the potential pitfal... (read in full...)

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