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Why does she hide posts to her ex from me?

Q.   I am really in a state of panic and unrest over my current situation, and need serious advice. I have been with my girl for over a year, and we love each other very much. We had some problems early on when our relationship was not clearly defined ...

A.   14 October 2010: No, you are not overreacting. She is clearly hung up on her ex-boyfriend. A year isn't that long. I would suggest that you not move the relation farther along (and certainly do not get married until you are totally sure that she has put the ... (read in full...)

I love my neighbor who's twice my age and never been married...what do I do?

Q.   I moved into my house about 9 months ago and have been single since then. However, I have a neighbor (literally 2X my age) who's never been married but has had a "girlfriend" for 12 years. She only comes over on Sunday and they are completely ...

A.   14 October 2010: This man is odd, doesn't really want a commitment to anyone--or even an exclusive relationship, and he's old enough to be your father. Run from this man. He has nothing to offer you.... (read in full...)

Husband after marriage asked about my past and then served me with divorce papers!

Q.   My husband and I are married for 10 months. Right after we got married he strictly asked me if there was anything about my past I wanted to share. So I believe in you marry your best friend and I told him somethings that I had done that I'm not so ...

A.   6 October 2010: You are well rid of him. If he had questions like this, he should have asked them before marriage. You did nothing wrone except choose a rather rotten egg. In time, you'll get over this, and you'll have better luck next time... (read in full...)

Met a great guy in Turkey but not sure how to proceed

Q.   I have just come back from Turkey in July and met a really nice Turkish man who is aged 22 we got on really well and with my son and family. We have spoken everyday and we are now in love and would love to get married one day. He wishes to move here ...

A.   3 October 2010: How long have you known him and how much time have you spent with him? You said he is 22. How old are you? I'd put the breaks on until you've spent more time together. You haven't mentioned what his job qualifications are--does he have a college ... (read in full...)

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