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I am a 35 year old lady from scotland. I am a student nurse half way through my second year at university. I am very honest and when people come to me with their problems I always give them a truthful answer and not just what they want to hear. I am non judgmental and believe that one cannot judge a man until we have walked in their shoes. I enjoy helping others by enabling them to reach their own conclusions by listening to their instincts and feelings. I dont believe that being truthful has to be blunt and insensitive. Why ask an agony aunt or a friend a question to be insulted and told that what they are doing is morally wrong. Being approachable is one of my qualities and for that I am truly grateful.

I got frisky with my friend, how do I get him to talk about it?

Q.   I've been friends with a guy for about a year and 8 months now. We don't get to see each other too often anymore, what with university and everything. But 10 months ago, we were at picnic/party thing with some other friends we don't really see that...

A.   1 June 2006: hi this is a tough one, because if you push him into a corner he may say nothing. He may back off. It obviously does mean something and it sounds like he makes excuses to get close to you. He can have an excuse that he was drunk for instance. Thi... (read in full...)

Meeting my guy in Spain soon, but is he brushing me off?

Q.   I wrote in last week about a Spanish guy I met on holiday 2 weeks ago. He gave me his number and was deciding to ring him or not as he doesn't talk much English, so I plucked up courage and rang him. I spoke to his friend as he could talk more Eng...

A.   31 May 2006: hi there. Do you think that it is love with this spanish guy? Keep trying to call him. Personally I would be a little scared to go out there on my own. I would take someone with me. Im not saying that anything is going to happen to you but it ... (read in full...)

I slept with my bfs best friend!!

Q.   I slept with boyfriends best friend and my boyfriends other friend saw us and told him. I denied doing anything and then gave in a bit by bit I told him the truth. I never meant it to happen and I regret it, my boyfriend says I only regret getting ...

A.   23 May 2006: Hi there You are in a bit of a mess. How are you going to get your boyfriend to forgive you? If the opportunity to sleep with your bf's friend again happened, would you do it again? Try and take some time as to what is missing in your relation... (read in full...)

Best friend moved in on the guy I loved from afar!

Q.   My Best friend has asked out the guy I have loved for over 11 years. She's rubbing it in my face by kissing and hugging him in front of me and she keeps telling me all the details of their nights out. It's making me feel so upset becuase I have ...

A.   23 May 2006: Hi I dont know how old you are and perhaps its not so important. I remember friends that I had when I was younger doing the same things to me. Does this guy know how you feel about him? I wouldnt bring myself to your so called friends level by... (read in full...)

My first love is back in the picture and the flame is still there, what do I do?

Q.   Hi I am a woman who is happily married to a wonderful man. we have two great daughters. The problem is that some time ago before i met my husband (17 yrs)i was travelling and lived on a kibbutz in Israel. Whilst there i met a truly fantasti...

A.   28 April 2006: Thankyou so much for all the advice that I have been given, its very helpful. I know what I have with my husband is good but sometimes things are not so black and white. What I have with my ex was very special and he was definately the love of my ... (read in full...)

Is it posssible to subconsciously try to get pregnant?

Q.   Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months,we'r both in our mid-late 20's so age not an issue, and we often end up having unprotected sex. The first time it happened I was quiet drunk but told him the next morning that we had to use condoms from now on, ...

A.   27 April 2006: Hi there I was in exactly the same situation as you once. My boyfriend and I were being a bit irresponsible, not taking precautions. However we loved each other alot, and subconsciously wanted a baby. We did have a baby and got married and ever... (read in full...)

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