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Does anyone else feel this way?

Q.   Hey guys! I was just wondering something. When you're in a relationship, do you ever get bored of the person you're with and find faults with them easily? This happens all the time with me and is the main reason I find it hard to make relationshi...

A.   3 May 2011: And yes I am very critical of myself lol... (read in full...)

Does anyone else feel this way?

Q.   Hey guys! I was just wondering something. When you're in a relationship, do you ever get bored of the person you're with and find faults with them easily? This happens all the time with me and is the main reason I find it hard to make relationshi...

A.   3 May 2011: Thanks so much for the feedback! I think it might be down to commitment as I'm not usually in a relationship and I'm just not used to it, but it still annoys me.... (read in full...)

How can I fight my gag reflex and give better blowjobs?

Q.   hi guys, im 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. its going very well, and we have had sex. but now my boyfriend really wants me to start giving him blowjobs and swallowing his sperm. i have only give a few blowjobs. i've bee...

A.   26 April 2011: Hii :) I'm the same, I have a bad gag reflex, but I just take my mind off it and i've learned to enjoy pleasuring him and get on with it. As for the taste of sperm, well.....if you like salt then you'll have no problem haha x... (read in full...)

First time sex stories...?

Q.   What was your first time having sex like, and how old were you when you did it? Did it hurt? How long did he last? (I'm asking because I just had my first time and want to see what others were like :) ) ...

A.   18 April 2011: My first time was with my boyfriend when I was 15, he was a virgin aswell so I didn't feel as nervous. I just felt it was the time do it. It was a little awkward at first but as soon as we got the hang of it I jumped on top and we had a great time ... (read in full...)

Do some girls like seeing two men kiss together? Or am the only one?

Q.   Ok listen GIRLS, we think boys are pigs, most of them, there are things guys like, for example, guys like stripper chicks, and we like stripper dudes. And this question has been in my mind for awhile, since dudes like to see two chicks kissing, do ...

A.   19 March 2011: I love seeing two guys kissing, you're not the only one! I think it's very very sexy haha! ... (read in full...)

I've never gave a handjob before.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. He is my first proper relationship and we really havn't done anything sexually. He has fingered me twice, but I want to return the favour and give him a handjob. Problem is I've never done anything...

A.   27 February 2011: Hiii :) I know your first time at anythin sexual can be really nervous, but there's no need to get yourself worked up about it honey. Just ask him to guide you, because after all, men are the best at giving handjobs as they do it to themselv... (read in full...)

What do I make of this online-turned-real life boyfriend?

Q.   Hey, this is my second time asking for help with guy problems haha, I guess I just don't have any luck. Well I met this guy online and totally clicked with him. He lives not that far from me, a couple of train rides away. Early on in the chatting ...

A.   16 December 2010: Thanks for the advice. He ended up dumping me shortly after me posting this :/ but I guess am glad because I think if it did go on any longer he would have been more controlling. Once again, thanks alot! :)... (read in full...)

How do I talk to her and ask her out? She is very pretty and I am the guy that gets bullied!

Q.   I really like this girl in my class (me and her are 14) i like everything about her but i dont know have to talk to her. She is much taller than me :/ and some people dont like me (just for no reason) and sometimes bully me. She is not part of that ...

A.   10 November 2010: Heyy. You could just start by striking up random conversation, saying hello when you pass her. Commenting on things that she might find interesting. If you start up slow and work your way up, then you can maybe pluck up the courage to invite her to ... (read in full...)

He's smoking again and I consider this like cheating!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are both 20 (almost 21) and have been together for a little over four months now. He was a smoker for two years before he started dating me and he told me he would quit once we started dating; that was the ultimatum I set for him ...

A.   1 November 2010: To be honest, if you haven't smoked before, it's not as easy as just saying "quit". Everyone has a right to make their own choices, and if he can't handle stopping by you using an ultimatum on him, then you need to support him. Smoking isn't as bad ... (read in full...)

I thought things went well the other night but he hasn't texted me back

Q.   Hi guys, I just wanted to get some advice on something. Well I've been into this guy for a good while now, met him at my cousin's house one day and something really attracted me to him. He's good friends with my cousins so I dunno if this is the ...

A.   29 October 2010: Yeah, I know not to constantly text and pester guys or they see you as clingy. It's just I don't understand why he acts like he likes me, but never actually says anything about it. But thanks for your advice anyways :)... (read in full...)

It was my first time without a condom and I'm very nervous!

Q.   Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. WE've had sex before but today I let him cum inside me for the first time. I'm on birth control and I've been on it for a while. I'm just a little nervous because my whole family is very ...

A.   29 October 2010: Yeah, you probably shouldn't have done that lol...You can always go to the doctors and they'll give you a "morning after pill" if you're really concerned. I think it works upto 72 hours after you've had sex. The main thing to do though is not ... (read in full...)

I thought things went well the other night but he hasn't texted me back

Q.   Hi guys, I just wanted to get some advice on something. Well I've been into this guy for a good while now, met him at my cousin's house one day and something really attracted me to him. He's good friends with my cousins so I dunno if this is the ...

A.   29 October 2010: Oh and also, I just wanna add that I thought he might be a little weary of making a further move on me because he might not want to cross that line because he's such good mates with my cousins? What do you think?... (read in full...)

I thought things went well the other night but he hasn't texted me back

Q.   Hi guys, I just wanted to get some advice on something. Well I've been into this guy for a good while now, met him at my cousin's house one day and something really attracted me to him. He's good friends with my cousins so I dunno if this is the ...

A.   29 October 2010: Thanks for the answers :) Erm I sent him a text yesterday and got no reply, but I found out from a couple of his mates that he never really answers his phone or texts people back soo... lol. I saw him yesterday aswell while walking home, he was with ... (read in full...)

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