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What's something really sexy I can do for his birthday?

Q.   dear cupid, soo, my boyfriend's birthday is coming up. i've already bought the first part of his present. aaand of course, the other part of his present will probably be somewhere along the lines of birthday sex. the thing is, i want to come up ...

A.   3 October 2011: Bring him his favourate drink, buy some handcuffs, handcuff his hands together and tell him that you are gonna do whatever he wants. my boyfriend loves this and it usually blows their minds. that would be good birthday sex..... (read in full...)

I'm only 15, if nothing's happened with a guy yet, will it ever?

Q.   im 15 and i have not had any interact with a boy. ive never been kissed, or had a boyfriend or had sex. i get attention quite a bit from older men. but im worried that if i havent manged to do anything so far it will neverhappen. like i keep ...

A.   3 October 2011: Honestly honey you are absolutely fine. I was so worried when i was your age to. I had not done anything, ever had a boyfriend or got much attention. Dont rush things, take things slow and i guarantee you something will happen. I had my time and i ... (read in full...)

Pregnant and still have a period?

Q.   so I had sex a day before my period was due. It was unprotected but he pulled out. I know that method isn't always reliable. So I don't need to hear that. my period started today, 4 days late. But I heard you could still be pregnant while o...

A.   18 May 2010: you can be pregnant on your period, so you need to get a test. this happened to me- i was having periods still and i was 3 months pregnant. it also could just be pregnancy spotting which is hard to tell the difference between a period and this.... (read in full...)

I'm worried I might be pregnant and my boyfriend could go to jail for having sex with me!

Q.   Im a 14 yr old girl and i recently had sex with my boyfriend who is 19. I have a feeling im pregnant because im suddenly having weird feelings, i dont know if im just over reacting. Im not sure what to do because my parents have said they would kick ...

A.   18 May 2010: hi there, im around the same age of you and i can understand how worried you must be. first of all, you need to think straight. you need to purchase a pregnancy test (even a two pack if possible) just to be sure. if you cant afford one from ... (read in full...)

My irregular periods are worrying me, could I be pregnant?

Q.   please i really need helpp jan i had unprotected sex w.my ex my period came 2months late march i started in the middle of the month.i lasted 8days i always last 6days but i had unproetced sex again w.my ex during my period sounds gross but ...

A.   18 May 2010: you really need to take a pregnancy test. you could just be unlucky and late on your period or it could be something more serious. i really do reccomend you get hold of a pregnancy test. if you cant afford one from the chemist, go to your doctors ... (read in full...)

Why should I be faithful when he'll just cheat again?

Q.   i am in a relationship of 8 years and 2 kids with him and i recently found out that my fiance was cheating on me with a couple other females at his place of work. It really hurt me, but we decided to try to work it out. now i find myself resenting ...

A.   1 January 2010: it seems like you are putting your children first which is good, but seriously, i feel you cheating yourself is no way to resolve this but only make matters even worse. you need a long hard thing and maybe a break with your children away from him. ... (read in full...)

My GF loves giving oral sex, but she's horrible at it - how can I tell her?

Q.   Hi all, im jo and im 22 years old. i have a very beautiful Gf AND She is 19. We have been dating for 3 months or more. My problem is that my gf is crazy about (Oral sex) i mean we have never spent more than 3 days without doing it for at least 1 t...

A.   6 January 2009: if you dont feel like the 'telling her' approach is going to work, tell her that your going to play a game. whilst she is giving you a horrendous blowjob - get her finger and suck it the way you would like her to do it, and she will soon pick up the ... (read in full...)

Hero!

Q.   hey you guys it's me lotmoney 13 and i have another situation. well about three days ago we had a temporary schedule at school. so he , the straight guy, was really late to class. he was running down the stairs at schoool and felll down and s...

A.   1 November 2008: hello darling. no, i dont think you made it obvious at all. if it was you mum falling down the stairs, you would of reacted in exactly the same way. im sure he's quiet flattered that you sprinted for him, afterall he could of been badly ... (read in full...)

I want to get to know him, but I'm really shy around boys.

Q.   I am really shy around boys. when i talk to my girlfriends i cant stop chatting but when it comes to boys I cant speak like for example the other day a guy i fancied said " hello how are you " All i could say is " fine and u? " and he says " fine " ...

A.   31 October 2008: what you need to do, is gear yourself up ready. we all get shy, it just shows how much you like the guy and if you talked a bit more it may make a huge difference. the party your going to attend is a perfect chance to let yourself go and find you... (read in full...)

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