Am I an odd girl for not trying girl on girl sex at least once?
Q. Am I odd? I`m a 28 year old girl and never experimented with girls. 80% of the straight girls I grew up with and girls in school and even married girls I know tried this at least once. I mean more than just kissing. Is this common for girls to try ...
A. 29 June 2008: firstly, 'bebe woman' have some respect for other people, its just rude. secondly, more women try same sex relationships than guys do. I reckon this is because women r closer they share everything with one another whereas guys dont say love you to a ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should speak to my boyfriend about my lesbian fantasy? He has suggested a FMF before...
Q. I really want to have a lesbian experience just to see if I am bi or not At the moment I'm with a wonderful guy but feel myself fantasising about women more and more. I've always felt this way really, when I was about 12 or 13 I used to play a g...
A. 11 June 2008: If you have felt like this for a long time it might be that u r bi. You may love your boyfriend but u dont sound ready for anything more until u figured out what u want. Its up to u whether u tell him or not but i would try it with this girl but if ... (read in full...)
Can this feeling last forever?
Q. I have always thought that marriage is a really bad idea. I mean, almost every couple I know is just a disaster. Nothing ever seems to last - and personally, I know myself, and I know how impatient I am. I'm not made for it. But now I'm hopeless...
A. 8 June 2008: i fort it was now! um...its a toughie i always said i wouldnt get married but to tel the truth i probably would if it was a certain chic. clearly u love this chic but ur worried incase things go wrong right?! only u can decide if u do. if it were me ... (read in full...)
Attracted to the girl who looks like a guy! I really want to get to know her
Q. theres this chic that i really adore. like she's amazing. i have never talked to her before but she just seems to be so cool. i thought she was a guy before and i was like " hes cute" but then i found out shes really a dyke. i want to talk to her so ...
A. 8 June 2008: ditto!!! talk to her on there or mail her on my space and say hey ive seen u round school, ur my friend on here but we never seem to talk! and leave it as that, nice, simple, sweet! keep me posted x ... (read in full...)
Attracted to the girl who looks like a guy! I really want to get to know her
Q. theres this chic that i really adore. like she's amazing. i have never talked to her before but she just seems to be so cool. i thought she was a guy before and i was like " hes cute" but then i found out shes really a dyke. i want to talk to her so ...
A. 7 June 2008: where abouts do u know her from? i mean does she go to school with u, does she live near u? r u any good at going up to ppl and askin for their number?! and how do u know shes a dyke????!! u can mail to my box if u like x... (read in full...)
Do I have a problem with my direction?
Q. Hi! I'm a 15-year-old girl who is straight and who loves boys! My sister is a lesbian and she gave me some episodes of the L World to watch last week.I wasn't ok with that coz'i'm not a dyke!!!I watched the show and I loved it!!! Now when I go on...
A. 6 June 2008: i watch the l word and im a lesbian. the first time i watched it it totally freaked me out but i knew i was into women, so some cud ask why the hell it freaked me? u can never help who u fall for be it a dude or chic as long as ur happy so if ur ... (read in full...)
I want to date her, but I'm worried about the distance and the fact she's just getting over a break up. And she doesn't know I'm bi, but mostly for her....
Q. My friend just got out of a three year relationship, she was the dumpee. They broke up because of distance/growing apart, etc. We're all in college and me and her girlfriend go to the same college. I just like her so much. I have for at least a y...
A. 3 June 2008: Hey how often do u see her? mail me to my box if u like? x... (read in full...)
I do not want to be with her, as I know it's illegal. I seek your advice on how to get over her!
Q. Hi, I really need help. I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number...
A. 29 May 2008: its difficult to get over people depending on ur feelings. maybe saying u love her makes it harder maybe saying u want to be mates makes it an excuse, only u decide that one!! i liked my teacher and i left school 3 years ago and stil totally love ... (read in full...)
All my friends have turned against me, and my problems just keep getting bigger. Help!
Q. I am 15 years old, and i have a very big problem. For tthe past 3 or so years, i have had huge crushes on other boys from my year even when i had a girlfriend. It wasn't so much of a problem, as i kept it to myself all the time. This wasn't a ...
A. 29 May 2008: hey i was in the same sort of situation i have lost all my best friends thru my life and the woman i really liked. everyone who knows im gay has always been nice to start with but then its as if they cant deal with the real me. does that make sense? ... (read in full...)
Confused by my friend and my feelings about this incident...what should I think?
Q. hi i have a problem and i am hopin u can help me so here it goes rite i ave a friend who is so kind to me and she is always there and that and we have sleepovers and stuff and she is pretty and i think i fancy her a bit but not that much. and b...
A. 29 May 2008: Hey, by the sounds of it she definately likes you!! But do u like her? I mean have u ever found her or any other girls attractive? Surely if you weren't comfortable you wouldn't have carried on lying next to her!!!! So maybe its a sign! Let me know ... (read in full...)
My work colleague often watches me and I recently got caught in a lingering gaze with her. Could she be attracted to me?
Q. I have a colleague at work and am getting very confused by her actions. We are both women of the same age she is single and I am attatched. I really like her and have done for months. She is in charge of the department where i work but is not ...
A. 26 May 2008: hey. its weird about the lunch thing! have u gone out first and then came back about ten fifteen minutes later to see if she stays in? would it be just the two of u on lunch whenever this happens yeh? if u wan talk more u can mail me if u want :-)... (read in full...)
I am bi curious and want to explore this side of my sexuality that my BF supports. How should I approach the girls?
Q. Hello! I'm 20 and live in [...] with my fiance and i'm bi curious....where do I find girls that I can have a physical relationship with (not so emotional) and how do I go about approching them? My fiance supports me in being bi-curious ...
A. 24 May 2008: Try a gay bar or club near you and go with friends, str8 friends can go there too and u mite find someone u might not!! Hope this helps x... (read in full...)
Do I want to stop loving her?
Q. For the past year i've been 'in love' with my female P.E! ive never been in love with members of the same sex before. i feel all funny when she talks to me, looks me in the eye or smiles at me. when i think of her my heart feels really weird and ...
A. 20 May 2008: I have been in the same situation and i think i can sorta help you if u want!! Mail me we can talk :-)... (read in full...)
I am attracted to another woman at work, how can I find out if she is the same way without letting on?
Q. I am a 30 year old woman, I am attracted to another woman at work. It is a very awkward situation. How can I find out if she is the same way without letting on?...
A. 20 May 2008: Tell me more bout her and how she acts and what sort of attention she gives you. Something must happen and u question it right?! ... (read in full...)
Ok so I'm a 17 year old lesbian...
Q. Ok so I'm a 17 year old lesbian and in my first year at college. I was taught by Miss X in years 10 and 11 and developed feelings for her. Even now I can't stop thinking about her. During my time being taught by her, I'm pretty sure she knew. ...
A. 20 May 2008: I fell for my teacher when i was at school and we had a friendship and i think its perfectly normal, go see her! ... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for my college lecturer, does this mean I'm bisexual?
Q. For about 3 months now i have had these feelings for one of my lecturers at college but the thing is she is the same sex as me. Dont get me wrong, i still like boys but am worried that I might be bisexual? I know that nothing can happen between us ...
A. 14 March 2008: totally understandable ur worried but trust me its nothing to be ashamed of. You will eventually find yourself thinking its funny that you can have your pick of women or men!!
It must be hard seeing her rather a lot and maybe thats why the feel... (read in full...)
What should I do about my love for a woman, I have a baby and a live-in boyfriend!
Q. Where to start... I am a bisexual woman. I'm 23 this year and have been in a live-in, but unmarried, committed relationship with a man for four years. We have a child together now, a wonderful toddler daughter. She is my life, and really, everythi...
A. 13 March 2008: Hi, I think your little girl would be better off it happening now rather than later when she would have grown up and been more attached. But at the end of the day you are her mum and its only you that can decide the future for her so dont let ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my love for a woman, I have a baby and a live-in boyfriend!
Q. Where to start... I am a bisexual woman. I'm 23 this year and have been in a live-in, but unmarried, committed relationship with a man for four years. We have a child together now, a wonderful toddler daughter. She is my life, and really, everythi...
A. 13 March 2008: lucky he understands what your going thru so u can turn to him for support. Being a lesbian mum wont ruin your childs future, it would be nice for more children to be bought up in that sort of envirnoment to accept different sexualities. I think the ... (read in full...)
I'm in a gay/lesbian relationship and want to start my own family.
Q. Do you think that if your in a gay/lesbian relationship and want to start you own family, is this good? I see a lot of criticism on that. What is your opinion? ...
A. 11 March 2008: I think that is great you want to, does your parner too? You didn't mention anything about them? If it is what you both want then definitely go for it.... (read in full...)
My mother thinks I'm a lesbian after reading my diary. What now?
Q. Help!!!!!!! I think that my mom read my diary. I'm 13 years old and I wrote about an 8th grade girl who just graduated. I think she was in love with me and so by that I felt in love with her too. The only problem is is that I'm also a girl. I ...
A. 9 March 2008: hey, my mum did the same when i was in high school. I was in love with this girl, she was awesome, my mum found out. She even found out it was me sending the girl roses for valentines and my mum worked there and it werent that bigger school!! I ... (read in full...)
Is it wishful thinking or does my boss like me? Should I declare my love before she switches jobs?
Q. Ok, i know this topic has been answered so many times, but i need advice. Im a closet bisexual, in a relationship with a man that has no idea i like women. Thing is im in love with someone else..... My boss!! Im 95% sure she is a lesbian, she lives ...
A. 9 March 2008: hey, im in a similar situation. She does exactly the same things only difference is she is in a relationship with a guy and lives with him!! But he cheated on her and it was a hell of a long story! If you wanna talk more i have more advice, we can ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend too (I'm bisexual), although I have a BF, what now?
Q. so first off i am bisexual but i would never sleep with any girl but i do like them.My best friend is also bisexual and i just found out she likes me but i have a boyfriend and i like him to but i also like her..so what do i do??.....
A. 9 March 2008: difficult i know, i like my best friend and she has a boyfriend but she does little things for me to question her sexuality. First off why wouldnt you sleep with a girl? I think i understand im the same with men. I class myself as bi but i wouldnt ... (read in full...)
I am in a lesbian love affair with my teacher, with complications. What can I do?
Q. I'm currently in a lesbian relationship with my teacher for 8 months (she's 29 and i'm 18) and im madly in love with her..... I know she's serious about me because she broke up with her bf of 2 years just to be with me. I love her deeply cos she's...
A. 3 March 2008: how long have u got left? Makesure this is what u both want first. If she is willing and u r in love then u cant fight fate, well done girl!!... (read in full...)
I LOVE my teacher too much she's female and so am I.
Q. hey everyone i love my teacher i go to a girls grammer school and this certain teacher is female and she is everything to me i hug her when she's upset, she does the same to me i love her so so so so much i really want some advice as i cant take i...
A. 3 March 2008: Dude! Been in exactly the same situation, email me and we can talk more if you like im willing to listen if u talk away!!
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I fancy my female tutor like mad...and I think she looks at my body.
Q. Hey :D Ok, im at a hair and beauty college doing beauty therapy, and i have a female tutor who i fancy like mad, i mean REALLY REALLY fancy, she's in her early 30's and has a little girl, but doesnt live with the partner anymore. Everytime we have ...
A. 3 March 2008: I have been thru the same thing. My PE teacher and me had a good friendship but she couldnt let anything happen because of her career. You gotta be careful about that but believe me i know what ur going thru. If u wanna swap stories and talk anymore ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my female teacher
Q. I am a 16 year old girl and I have a crush on my teacher. That would be fine if it was a man, but it isn't. She's a very hot woman I just have to be around. I need help to get her out of my mind. What can I do? If my parents found out they'd shoot ...
A. 9 July 2007: Life is a bitch like this! I fell for my female pe teacher about 8 years ago now and even when i left school i thought i would get over her but two years later and she is getting married this month, still the feelings stay there!!! She was great ... (read in full...)
If he didn't have a girlfriend, my friend might be interested in something with me! Is there anything I can do?
Q. Ok I have a male friend that I fancy rotten. I'm male too. He knows my sexuality - he seems intersted and has said that if he did not have a girlfriend he would try things. What should I do? (I want the ball to roll now)...
A. 14 March 2006: First of all think about his girlfriend in all this. She is the innocent one after all. If he hasn't already come out to her he would like to explore more then give him time. Things will only happen when you least expect them too right? Never rush ... (read in full...)
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