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How to make pleasuring myself better?

Q.   ok I dnt masterbate alot but I find it quite pleasurable Lol but when I do. it the only thing that gives me pleasure is rubbing my clit. and when I do the pleasure comes and goes very quickly but it's very intense.i've never had sex so I don't know ...

A.   21 March 2009: okay this sounds gross but its amazing trust me! Do u have an electric toothbrush? Do u have a spear head? If so use that. Just place it on ur cilt and ur away! Just make sure nobody uses the head to clean there teeth lol xxx ... (read in full...)

Will she be turned off by my "lil buddy?"

Q.   hey aunts , i need some advice.. okay here's the deal, me and my girlfriend really like each other and have been going out for a year..she's 15, im 14.. well any ways we've made out and stuff but have done anything other than that, and w...

A.   8 March 2009: To be honest im the same age as ur gf. And never seen one. Ive seen one errected under my ex's bfs pants but thats its. Chances r she will never have seen one! But dont rush things. Just slow down if she wants. Im sure u will bit it really isnt nice ... (read in full...)

He wants it hard and fast and I am a virgin and he knows but doesn't care! Please help!

Q.   okay. this is really scary to me so someone please give me some advice. i have a boyfriend, he is 18. i'm a little younger than him, hehe. anyways we want to have sex. he knows i am a virgin.... he wants me to be on my hands and knees when we do it. ...

A.   28 February 2009: Hey hun. Do not have sex with this sex crazed boy. He has proberly seen it on a porn movie. And with hormones raging it only spells troubel. I know this coz i have been in ur place. But i dumped him coz i didnt want to give somehing so personal like ... (read in full...)

Will all boys make me feel like this?

Q.   Hi! These a boy who i went out with and then we split coz he wanted sex and i didnt also it turns out he was seeing some other girl just for sex! . Im only 14 and hes 16 so i wasnt ready. But hes asked since then first time i said yes but it didn ...

A.   9 February 2009: Thanx guys! you're right hes an idiot! I dont want sex anyway. Not yet. He wanted physical relationship. I wanted more emotinally. We did go far only two days into it. But he was my first bf. I was soooooo close to txt him yesterday but im glad i ... (read in full...)

Do girls like being stared at?

Q.   I stare at cute girls practically all the time... do they find it perverse/repulsive or does it make them feel good?...

A.   27 January 2009: Being a 14 year old girl. Its nice to have a boy check u out and make eye contact. But its just older men like over 30 that stare at u it makes me sick. But if the guys about my age or a bit older and there fit then i will willing flirt. My freinds ... (read in full...)

So difficult just to forget about him...

Q.   I asked a question a while ago asking what to do about a boy and I got a good response. I have taken the advice about just to forget him but how can I when I see him every day at my bus stop and he always stares at me on the bus. My friends always ...

A.   27 January 2009: Thanx hun. Only problem now is that he has txt me and said i love you. God i cant keep up thanx again x ... (read in full...)

I want my b/f to grow up!

Q.   My boyfriend and me have been together for 4 years now. Well hes been a bit of a jerk lately, here's why. 1. He forgot he had to meet my parents and me look stupid. 2. He forgot my birthday 2 times in a row. 3. When he make it to me we bot...

A.   25 January 2009: Girl ask yourself this... Why the hell are u with this guy. U may say you love him and say ill give him one more chance. But face the facts. Your to good for him. If a guy forgot even one of my birthdays he would have been long gone. Just think do ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is losing interest in me slowly.

Q.   My boyfriend is losing intrest me in slowly and I think it's because even though I'm 'mature' for being 15, I'm not perfect and him being 18, almost 19 makes him super mature, and sometimes I can't always keep up. Any advice about what I can do s...

A.   25 January 2009: Oh hunny! You cant make someone love you. Been here done that and had the broken heart to prove it. Its hard to let some you love go. But if he loves you then you dont need to try. Just be your self and he will love you for who you are. If you try ... (read in full...)

He prefers Asian porn better than having actual sex and I'm sooooo frustrated!!!

Q.   My bf likes Asian girls and he lusts for then on the internet(porn) and it makes me uncomfortable when we have sex. He only likes me cuz, I look asian (mexican) my eyes do.. And I just don't know.. What should I do.. I'm not comfortable with this at ...

A.   20 January 2009: Ok think hun "do i really want him in my life?" im guessing yes as ur expecting (congrates by the way!) if it makes u really uncomftable then confront him! Or get ur own back by looking at porn which is the oppersite to what he is! That normally ... (read in full...)

What am I doing wrong? Why am I never the one chosen?

Q.   I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Most of the time I have a crush on somebody, I do some things with them, but I don't want to ask them out too soon as I don't know them that well. For example, last night, I was dancing with a nice young lady, we ...

A.   18 January 2009: Hunny. Love takes time. I have only just had my first bf. And it turns out he was a creep. I would have loved it to have just one boyfriend in my whole life. You sound real sweet. So dont go worrying yourself. You will find a girl just as sweet as ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend slapped me

Q.   Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...

A.   18 January 2009: Oh my god. He is stupid BOY. Not a man. Forget him. And tell his next girlfeind (if he gets one!) what happended. We all are allowed to tell a white lie. Every now and again. Its natarel. But when a boy slaps you he has no right. Just forget ... (read in full...)

Do I say yes and have a niggle in the back of my every time we kiss. Or say no and forget him.....

Q.   Dear cupid. I have a bit of a dilemma. There is a boy who's 16. I went out with him a while ago. But we split because he wanted sex and I wasn't ready. Anyway a few months down the line he has asked me out saying he will go really slow this tim...

A.   18 January 2009: Thanks for the answers guys!:-) your right im only 14 and ive got a lot to live for! My friends all say the same. Thanks for taking the time and i hope to help you some time!!!!... (read in full...)

He seems to have completely dropped off the radar...

Q.   I knew this guy for two years. He randomly will call me. In November he called me up late at night he kept telling me about his fantasies and asked about mine how the next day he wanted to have sex with me. We saw each other the next day and just ...

A.   18 January 2009: Hey hun. This sounds tricky. But i know how you feel as it kinda happened to me. I just trying to move. Forget about him. Guys are a hard thing to work out. There are soooooo many boys werthy of you and he isnt one of them. There must be fitter boys ... (read in full...)

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