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Ive been in a relationship for 3 yrs but ive found out my guy went to my cousins for sex. I was told it didn't happen but I dont know what to do?

Q.   I am in a relationship for 3 and half yrs two years ago my bf kissed my cousin. now i have just found out when i was out of town for one night he called to her house again looking for sex. it didnt happen or so im told anyway. i love him to bits ...

A.   25 September 2007: Oh its not a problem at all. I feel the same way.. There are times lately when im really happy with him and were having a good time with nothing on my mind.. then all of a sudden out of no where what happened will pop into my head, and ill start ... (read in full...)

I want to spend my life with him, but I need to be able to trust him

Q.   wen i first started to date my bf i was warned about him and people would say that he's no good, but i liked him so much i carried on going out with him but it always played in the back of my mind. i got told that he was interested in this girl and ...

A.   24 September 2007: Hey I was wrote you a response before, and I was just wondering how everything was going now??? Let me know Good Luck!!... (read in full...)

Ive been in a relationship for 3 yrs but ive found out my guy went to my cousins for sex. I was told it didn't happen but I dont know what to do?

Q.   I am in a relationship for 3 and half yrs two years ago my bf kissed my cousin. now i have just found out when i was out of town for one night he called to her house again looking for sex. it didnt happen or so im told anyway. i love him to bits ...

A.   24 September 2007: Hey, just checking to see how your feeling now?? Iam still feeling much the same, its getting a bit better. Im guessing it takes a while to get over. As you are in the same position as me, we both heard our boyfriends cheated and they tell us no..... (read in full...)

I want my ex back. We slept together but he hasn't said about getting back together yet?

Q.   Hi I need some help in a confusing situation. Me and my ex broke up about seven months ago because of a stupid misunderstanding, we were both very stubborn about it but hurt feelings got in the way of sorting it out earlier. anyway as time went by ...

A.   24 September 2007: No he clearly wouldnt bother texting you and continuing conctacting you if there wasnt feelings there. He wants to talk to you for a reason, and i assume thats because theres still feelings, so if you like this guy then say something to him to see ... (read in full...)

I want my ex back. We slept together but he hasn't said about getting back together yet?

Q.   Hi I need some help in a confusing situation. Me and my ex broke up about seven months ago because of a stupid misunderstanding, we were both very stubborn about it but hurt feelings got in the way of sorting it out earlier. anyway as time went by ...

A.   17 September 2007: How did it go?? :)... (read in full...)

Ive been in a relationship for 3 yrs but ive found out my guy went to my cousins for sex. I was told it didn't happen but I dont know what to do?

Q.   I am in a relationship for 3 and half yrs two years ago my bf kissed my cousin. now i have just found out when i was out of town for one night he called to her house again looking for sex. it didnt happen or so im told anyway. i love him to bits ...

A.   7 September 2007: Your welcome, and I totally understand where you are coming from... My boyfriend ex told me he would come see her before work in the morning, which i knew wasnt true as he works at 7 and leave at 6:55. However for a while it made me nervous when he ... (read in full...)

I want my ex back. We slept together but he hasn't said about getting back together yet?

Q.   Hi I need some help in a confusing situation. Me and my ex broke up about seven months ago because of a stupid misunderstanding, we were both very stubborn about it but hurt feelings got in the way of sorting it out earlier. anyway as time went by ...

A.   7 September 2007: Yes I have, and It did go somewhere... I know what you mean by not wanting to say something strong.. thats why I suggested you just say something like "Is there even a point in us talking, because if this isnt going anywhere I dont think we should ... (read in full...)

I cheated on my boyfriend and its eating me alive!

Q.   I kissed someone else as a result a baddd judgment moment and 2 many drinks (wich is no excuse), and it’s eating me alive, a love my boyfriend very much and don’t want to hurt him, but I don’t know if I should tell him, and don´t know what to do, I ...

A.   4 September 2007: Well lets see, would your boyfriend tell you? Probably not as he is a guy... Guys usually do stupid stuff then feel bad about it and realize they shouldnt... So they think its ok not to tell you because they dont plan on ever doing it again. You ... (read in full...)

Why would my ex call me for love advice?

Q.   Hello All, My ex byfriend, also the father of my son, recently called me to get advice. He claims he could not think of anyone else to call. He tells me he is leaving the current girlfriend for a new prospect he recently meet. But the weird th...

A.   4 September 2007: If he was trying to hard to be with you recently then my guess is he is trying to make you jealous, and see how you feel about him. Maybe he wants to leave this girl for you and thats why he wants your opinion. ... (read in full...)

I want to spend my life with him, but I need to be able to trust him

Q.   wen i first started to date my bf i was warned about him and people would say that he's no good, but i liked him so much i carried on going out with him but it always played in the back of my mind. i got told that he was interested in this girl and ...

A.   4 September 2007: Im was in a smiliar situation and trust me its not you that needs to change... My boyfriend used to put his phone on silent or turn it off when we started dating and even up to 8 months into the relationship... It never much bothered me as he always ... (read in full...)

Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?

Q.   Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...

A.   4 September 2007: From my experiences yes. Good looking people are generally over confident and tend to be more selfish as most of the time since they think they are so special it does not matter if they hurt the person they are with because they can have someone ... (read in full...)

I don't want my bf getting sucked into his ex's dramas!!

Q.   An old girlfriend tried to I.M. my b/f tonight while we were on the computer downloading some music. He chose the "do not accept" this person as an I.M. buddy, but I was still upset that she's contacting him. He claims he hasn't talked to her and ...

A.   4 September 2007: I agree with everyone else, you should have him email her. I was in a similar situation and took it upon myself to email the ex and that only caused problems such as her telling me he was cheating on me, and really just lost it on me because she was ... (read in full...)

Now we are back together he never says he loves me!!

Q.   My boyfriend dumped me and now we are back together but he never says he loves me and if i say it he tells me i dont mean it and that he doesnt believe me. We have been together for 11 months and i do love him :(. what do i do?...

A.   4 September 2007: I also have been with my boyfriend for just a little over 11months... and he says I love you atleast 20 times a day. I feel that when you love someone you always want to tell them and let them know, it feels good to say and feels good to hear.. So ... (read in full...)

I want my ex back. We slept together but he hasn't said about getting back together yet?

Q.   Hi I need some help in a confusing situation. Me and my ex broke up about seven months ago because of a stupid misunderstanding, we were both very stubborn about it but hurt feelings got in the way of sorting it out earlier. anyway as time went by ...

A.   4 September 2007: Next time he texts you I would ask him 'I just want to know if theres even a point to us talking. Is this going to go anywhere because if not I dont think we should be speaking'... if you let him know that either you want something from this or your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriends ex is flirting with him. Because of his past should I be worried?

Q.   Before my b/f got together with me, he was seeing the other woman who is something like 26-28. She never bothered me as she is in a long term relationship with 2 children by the same guy. Untill however when I thought about the way she had been...

A.   4 September 2007: I myself was dealing with an Ex that just wouldnt go away. and it took a year for her to stop... well atleast I hope she has. However it is a difficult situation to deal with and puts strain on the relationship. You really need to talk to him about ... (read in full...)

Ive been in a relationship for 3 yrs but ive found out my guy went to my cousins for sex. I was told it didn't happen but I dont know what to do?

Q.   I am in a relationship for 3 and half yrs two years ago my bf kissed my cousin. now i have just found out when i was out of town for one night he called to her house again looking for sex. it didnt happen or so im told anyway. i love him to bits ...

A.   4 September 2007: Iam In a very similar situation, My boyfriend and I have been together for over 1 year, recently his ex contacted me saying he was sleeping with her and talking to her... I found out he lied when he told me non of this was true and he was talking to ... (read in full...)

His ex is claiming he cheated on me with her, he says no. I dont know what to believe!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. A month before we started dating he had broken up with a girl he dated for 8 months. He had constantly told me what a horrible relationship they had and how she was mean to his daughter. At the ...

A.   21 August 2007: Thank you both for your answers.. and no she is not the mother of his child.. he does not have contact with his daughters mom as she has not chosen to be a part of their childs life... He has assured me he will not speak to her anymore as he said ... (read in full...)

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