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Could I possibly be pregnant from this first relation?

Q.   Dear aunts and uncles, I had sex for the first time 3 weeks ago, at age 29, with a friend of a friend I´ve met before. It was a one night stand, we used condom, but I was on my pill break (one day without the pill). On the next day, my period c...

A.   30 October 2008: just to give an update on the question - turns out that I´m not pregnant, was just a false alarm! thanks!... (read in full...)

He doesnt seem as interested about me moving closer to him... Do you think I should now forget the move!?

Q.   Dear agony aunts/uncles, I have this friend for whom I´ve had a big crush, and so he had for me. Last november we met and told each other feelings, and finally were togheter (without sex). He came back to his country and we kept in touch since t...

A.   28 August 2007: To give an update on the question... The emails start to be rare as the months passed by. I´ve sent him a birthday gift, to which he answered quickly, but was all. Now I´ve decided to email him saying that I finally understood that he wasnt... (read in full...)

He doesnt seem as interested about me moving closer to him... Do you think I should now forget the move!?

Q.   Dear agony aunts/uncles, I have this friend for whom I´ve had a big crush, and so he had for me. Last november we met and told each other feelings, and finally were togheter (without sex). He came back to his country and we kept in touch since t...

A.   28 August 2007: update on this story... emails got rare as months passed by... I even sent him a birthday gift, and he quickly ansered thanking me for that, but that was all. Finally I got the courage to email him saying how I feel and that it would be better ... (read in full...)

My long distance boyfriend is mean to me online but affectionate to me in person! Why is this?

Q.   Fun with long distance! Why is my boyfriend all snuggly and affectionate whenever I visit him, but a bit of a meany online? I fell in love with my boyfriend online, though he wasn't very attractive in photos, because I liked his intellect. ...

A.   9 July 2007: Hi, I guess I´m on the same situation that you are... I´m on a long distance relationship with a guy I´ve first met online and than in person. We we are togheter, is wonderful. But when we talk online he seems to be away, take ages to answer my e... (read in full...)

We had a great date and then he suddenly disappeared, why?

Q.   I'm completely baffled by this one. I met a guy online through a dating site, and we met in person for our first date last week. I felt an instant connection -- conversation flowed easily, we had lots of things in common, we shared stories, we ...

A.   24 May 2007: Hi, I´m on the same boat as you. Met this great guy online, he lives in other country. When we are together, it was amazing, but when we are apart, he dont show any effort in keep in touch, like having msn chats or answer emails faster. I feel tha... (read in full...)

He doesnt seem as interested about me moving closer to him... Do you think I should now forget the move!?

Q.   Dear agony aunts/uncles, I have this friend for whom I´ve had a big crush, and so he had for me. Last november we met and told each other feelings, and finally were togheter (without sex). He came back to his country and we kept in touch since t...

A.   16 April 2007: Thanks for the answers! To answer 1st post, I live in Brazil and he lives in the UK. If I had the money to go and he didn´t had time for me, it wouldn´t be a problem, since London is a big city which I love. He mentioned on his last email th... (read in full...)

Do Europeans have problems showing their feelings?

Q.   I´ve met this guy online some years ago (3 or 4), when he was coming to my country (my city included) and he needed information. I helped him and we developed some friendship, meeting up when he came here. We kept in touch and a year after, it was ...

A.   16 April 2007: thanks guys, I´ve posted a new question about this situation.... ... (read in full...)

Do you think that she would like to make it work, or is she scared of how her parents will react ?

Q.   I really want to go out wth a grl who is 17 and I am 27. She said she won't date men who are over 22, Another day she told me over 23 and another day over 25. Also, she said that if she dated me, her parents would disown her! She knows that I...

A.   2 April 2007: I´ve been on her shoes before, as my first boyfriend was 10 years older than me (I was 18 and he was 28). My advise is doing what he didn´t do - if you really love her, try to get her parent´s confidence. In that age, girls are mostly afraid of ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend very much but I'm scared to have intercourse with him...

Q.   Hello, I'm a 19 year old female and I am a virgin. I have been dating my bf for 6 months now and am very much in love with him. Everything is perfect between us except that he is ready to have intercourse and I'm not. I don't know why because I ...

A.   2 April 2007: Hello, My sugestion is only do when you feel like, but why not go on with some intimacy, to see if you get in the mood? Do you have time to be alone, just the two of you? Maybe could be a good oportunity to explore his body, you have yours expl... (read in full...)

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