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He's ok till we are with others then he starts to get weird and doesn't trust me!

Q.   I have been seeing a very nice guy for about a month now. Fell in love and everything is perfect when we are alone together, but the moment we are in a group with friends its almost as if he gets very insecure abut us. He tells me I look around at ...

A.   3 December 2011: Honestly, it takes a while to trust someone. Maybe new situations he has never experienced are happening and he is unsure how to react. Alot of times there is a talkative person and a quiet person in a relationship and the quiet one gets left out. ... (read in full...)

I love my girl friend to bits. So why does she treat me with disrespect and refuse to believe I love her?

Q.   I feel like I am completely unlovable as I am nothing but a big joke to everyone. They all constantly make fun of me, even more own girlfriend never takes me serious and has no respect for me nor my family, just because my dad was illegal. But he...

A.   12 November 2011: Love is a very strange thing. Sometimes those people hurt you more than anyone else in the world. Words can hurt more than any type of physical abuse could ever due to you. Building confidence is not easy. If your friends are leaving as you s... (read in full...)

Attracted to my brother's friend

Q.   im 15, my brothes bestfriend is 17, theres a troop of 7-8 of them, one of them is called kieran, i really like him and have done for several months now, i get to see him every sunday because my brother plays football with him and i watch my brother ...

A.   12 November 2011: Brothers can be protective. Not only of sisters but of close friends too. If it took him a while to make friends, he may feel you are trying to take his friend or maybe he knows that he gets around a little too much and could be a player. ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to handle keeping this relationship a secret and not coming on to strong..

Q.   So there's this guy who I like, and as much as I flirted with him for a joke, I always felt something for him. I figured he was straight, and the other week he asked me out. Now as you can imagine I was over the moon, but things were weird for a ...

A.   1 April 2011: Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and let it all out. Go for a jog and let all your anxiety and stress out! Then approach him from a perspective of how you feel. Giving time is appopriate but not talking can send mixed signals. I ... (read in full...)

I want to try gay sex but I have a gf.

Q.   ok so im straight ive been in a relationship for three years, i think i was to have sex with a man im very curious but i don't know what to do? can any one give me any advice on what to do pleaseeeee??? HELP!!!...

A.   1 April 2011: I can understand where you are coming from. It is not easy rationalizing these feelings as I have been there before. Just take a little time to yourself and decide what is right for you. Cheating, by no means, is not a worthy answer. Finding... (read in full...)

Was sure I was gay, but now having thoughts about a girl

Q.   Ok so Im gay and have been forever. When I was younger I slept with a lot of men, only once had an experience with a girl after a lot of alcohol but neither of us enjoyed it in the slightest. At 21 Im getting ready to settle down, found a man I lo...

A.   10 March 2011: I am a gay male and can understand this dilemma. I had curious feelings and wondered about the opposite sex and what it could offer. I then realized something. We all have thoughts, even sexually, what another person would be like. Male or ... (read in full...)

What makes me unworthy of finding love?

Q.   I'm 25, still single and beyond lonely. I've never had a girlfriend and have never really dated for that matter. I have a college degree, am serving in the military (finishing my enlistment and getting out in a couple months), and have a good ...

A.   15 February 2011: Things really do take time. I just turned 34 and finally found the person I love more than life itself. I dated on and off a few times but never really found or had that true experience. Take your time and you do worry about things, it's a n... (read in full...)

She feels bad because I'm doing all the work

Q.   My girlfriend says she feels bad about us having sex because she feels like I'm doing all the work. Theres no pleasure issues, I've done my anatomy, psychology and physiological homework and have developed some kind of bizarre self control from ...

A.   5 February 2011: Foreplay may be what you need to let her control. It is just as much foreplay as it is sex that controls sensations in your body. Touch is a mighty big controlling factor and you might suggestion that she take over that role and you take over in ... (read in full...)

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