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Is there an age gap problem if girl 18 dates 25 yr old guy? Or are they about the same?

Q.   What is your view on an 18 year old dating a 24 or 25 year old, if their maturity level is fairly the same?...

A.   19 March 2011: Age doesn't matter at all as long as you both are meant to be :)... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my bank teller!

Q.   So it's been a couple years since I've really liked someone. I had my heart crushed so I decided to take some time to focus on myself and what I want out of life.  Recently this new guy started working at the bank I go to, and it has certainl...

A.   31 October 2010: I think what you should do is ask him out for a cup of coffee... =) that'll be a good start and you can start to know him better... then be friends and the rest is up to you =D goodluck... (read in full...)

My asian girlfriend hides me from her family

Q.   I have a problem with my girlfriend and its really making me frustrated and confused. We have been together for four months now, i'm white and shes asian. I have brought her around my entire family and introduced her to all of my closest friends. ...

A.   28 September 2010: i'm an asian girl. And i have these problems too in the past. My parents are the not so modern yet not so traditional. They don't arrange my marriage, but they strictly forbid me from marrying other than asian guys. I went to highschool and fell in ... (read in full...)

I've loved her for years, been there to console her, but she wants to stay "just friends"

Q.   Ok so here's the story. I've know this girls since we were in high school. I'm 25 now and she's 23. I've always thought she was cute and we've flirted back and forth for years. We never ended up hooking up because she was always dating one of my ...

A.   26 September 2010: awwh... you sound like an awesome guy. And if any girl who doesn't realise that... well... screw them. I've been in your best friend's position. I had this guy who was totally madly in love with me. It was pretty obvious, but I didn't want to lose ... (read in full...)

I need advice about my stretch marks! Can anyone advise me?

Q.   hi So im 19 year old male. And i have alot of stretch marks. I mean my whole upper body is covered with em! Most of them are fairly invisible and doesnt feel that bad but the sides of my upper body and my whole back (minus the area above my ar...

A.   7 September 2010: No matter what you do, firstly you will have to lose weight. Try not to hope to much in losing 50 kg all in one go... Give yourself time like maybe tell yourself 'this month I'm gonna work hard to lose 10 kg' then when you do lose 10 kg, challenge ... (read in full...)

How do I ask my girlfriend if we can have sex?

Q.   I am only 20, yet I've not had sex with my girlfriend before. I want to but I need to know how to say it in order not to be turned down. How do I go about this? I need help....

A.   7 September 2010: take it stage by stage and don't just jump into it straight away. Be sure to turn her on first before you decide it's time to have sex. start by kissing her, touching her everywhere and when you know she wants it as much as you do, then you know ... (read in full...)

Is she lying to me about the other girl? I need help!

Q.   this is kinda tricky, and im in what i would call a problem. One of my friends (female) that we will call F1, gets jealous, and has admited that F2 (also female) always has guys like her more than her, even though they are "best friends". this is ...

A.   7 September 2010: ikr.... that is without a doubt the most longest one i've ever read... Anyways, If I were you, I think you should forget F1 and F2. It seems as if they're trying to play with you or something. Either way, don't think about it too much or you will ... (read in full...)

I've never had a girlfriend, is there something wrong with me?

Q.   I'm 25 years old (nearly 26) and I've never had a girlfriend at all. Is there something wrong with me? I have been on dating sites (got rejected on those), I get rejected by women a lot (I never said anything nasty, disrespectful and so on to anyon...

A.   6 September 2010: Girls that are not shallow don't just go for guys who are rich and handsome. Usually a girl looks for someone who they can trust and someone who can make them smile. Maybe not getting a job might be your problem because it wudn't look gud if u din ... (read in full...)

What should I do this time?

Q.   I have been friends wit this girl for over 2 year and for the last year i am so clear on how i feel about her . she is all i seem to think about. I have told her i care about her deeply as more than a friend her response to this was i have been hurt ...

A.   6 September 2010: In life, sometimes people have this friendship they cherrish so much.It is so valuable to them that they don't want anything to ruin it, but when u told her how you feel, maybe she just thinks it's not the best way to go. U might not understand ... (read in full...)

Some guy kissed her

Q.   guys i neeed help pleaaaase.. my girlfriend just told me a guy in her class kissed her while they were on a break.but she didnt kiss him back she said it all happened in 1 second!! they were talkin and he just kissed her :S i dont know what t...

A.   6 September 2010: I f she really loves you, she did what she wuz suppose to do. She told you, rather than lying to you because I think why does she bother telling if she's lying? I'm gonna have to agree with CindyCares, u shud call her and forgive her. Why wud u be ... (read in full...)

What is it is he trying to say?

Q.   I am 18 years old. I babysit and tutor arounnd the neighbourhood. There's this one family that I usually babysit. I would usually take care of their five year old daughter and tutor their 15 year old son. After some time, I got to know them better ...

A.   6 September 2010: You guys are right, I should ask him.... I'll tell you after I ask him.... When shud I ask him?... (read in full...)

I regret how I treated her...what should I do to fix this?

Q.   I'm not too sure if my question's type is common, but I've really found the need to ask for help. The thing is, I recently have broken up with my girlfriend and now I miss her...But it's actually a little more complicated than that. When she and I...

A.   6 September 2010: It's normal to slowly get attached to someone, but for now u told her u'd be frens so u better not make a move yet. For now juz try to be an extremely gud fren to her. And probably soon she'll realize how u can be such a caring person. When the time ... (read in full...)

What is it is he trying to say?

Q.   I am 18 years old. I babysit and tutor arounnd the neighbourhood. There's this one family that I usually babysit. I would usually take care of their five year old daughter and tutor their 15 year old son. After some time, I got to know them better ...

A.   6 September 2010: yes. He is very attractive, but why all of a sudden? when we first met, he didn't even talk to me much. Just more of staring and looking.... (read in full...)

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