I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 4 November 2010: Yeah, I couldn't keep to the no contact rule. This is the way I looked at it:
She walked away because she thought I didn't care about her and she couldn't trust me, so if I just let her walk away without trying, than that would reaffirm everythi... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 2 November 2010: So it's been a while since I've posted anything here, but I thought I would update you all on what has happened. So about a week and a half ago I sent her an email, saying how much I like her, that I would never cheat on her etc. You get the ... (read in full...)
I miss her so much! Can I try to get her back again? Can't even imagine my life without her...
Q. My girlfriend and I were together for close to five years. About 3 years in, after living together for a year, she broke up with me and decided to move out. She said she'd lost that spark and felt like I was taking her for granted. It comp...
A. 24 October 2010: Hi there, I'm dealing with something sorta similar to this. I was told that she knows that I care about her, but that I don't act like it. She won't talk to me anymore. I'm not quite sure what you can do. Like you I'm doing everything I can to not ... (read in full...)
Have any of you guys dealt with this kind of insecurity and jealousy before?
Q. I was recently dating this woman who I felt very strongly for. Unfortunately, she was very insecure. Her ex had cheated on her numerous times. Anyways, she began accusing me of seeing another woman, which wasn't true. Nothing I said to her could ...
A. 20 October 2010: yeah, you're right. I broke the NC rule. I sent her text asking how she was doing. No response. I'm deleting her number. ... (read in full...)
Have any of you guys dealt with this kind of insecurity and jealousy before?
Q. I was recently dating this woman who I felt very strongly for. Unfortunately, she was very insecure. Her ex had cheated on her numerous times. Anyways, she began accusing me of seeing another woman, which wasn't true. Nothing I said to her could ...
A. 20 October 2010: We agreed not to see other people, but she would never commit, and be my girlfriend. She was too afraid of getting hurt. It was really intense in the beginning. We had sex after about 2 to 3 weeks after we met, and we were talking on the phone ... (read in full...)
Have any of you guys dealt with this kind of insecurity and jealousy before?
Q. I was recently dating this woman who I felt very strongly for. Unfortunately, she was very insecure. Her ex had cheated on her numerous times. Anyways, she began accusing me of seeing another woman, which wasn't true. Nothing I said to her could ...
A. 19 October 2010: To anonymous:
Have you heard from your boyfriend?... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 18 October 2010: To make matters worse, I was just laid off today. I have about 2 maybe 3 months to find another job. When it rains it pours I guess. I really didn't like my job but at least it paid the bills! ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 18 October 2010:
I'm starting think that she might be a bit narcissistic.
Heres just a couple of reasons why I think so:
1) If I went out with my friends more then once a week, she would get angry and ask me why.
2) Once she claimed we made plans to do ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 17 October 2010: Sorry to rehash this again but something just dawned on me today. Her behaviour over the two weeks before it ended:
1) constant accusations I was seeing someone else
2) She drops off my clothes at my house about 1.5 weeks later
3) I go to my... (read in full...)
Have any of you guys dealt with this kind of insecurity and jealousy before?
Q. I was recently dating this woman who I felt very strongly for. Unfortunately, she was very insecure. Her ex had cheated on her numerous times. Anyways, she began accusing me of seeing another woman, which wasn't true. Nothing I said to her could ...
A. 17 October 2010: I think the most frustrating thing about this situation is that I haven't done anything wrong. I tried so hard, gave her more attention etc. nothing works. Only time will tell I guess. ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 17 October 2010:
She is from Vietnam, She`s live in the Canada and the states for the past 10 years, and yes we have been seeing eacthother quite often. Roughly 2 times a week maybe more. Before I left for my brother`s wedding we saw eachother almost everyday for ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 16 October 2010: I know that if she does try and contact me, unless she has changed, this will all happen again and I can't deal with it.
I feel like a fool for investing so much into her, but can't help the way I feel. I'd like nothing more than to delete h... (read in full...)
Its been 15 days since ex said he would call me back. What does that mean?
Q. my ex and i have been talking on and off for a year..i recently asked if he wanted to talk more often and he said ok and that he had no problem with that and i mentioned about meeting soon and he said ok to that as well. I even joked saying are you ...
A. 16 October 2010: I agree with one of the other comments. Send one text, if he replies you can continue on as you have been if you want. If he doesn't move on. ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 16 October 2010: Ok, so what should I do if she does come around again? I'm not sure how likely that is, but I think it would be pretty hard for me to turn away.... (read in full...)
Simple question on asking someone out.
Q. Hi, just a simple and quick question: If I make an excuse to enter this girls office at work (Any excuse will do) - is it too rash to, after I strike up a conversation, say "Blah, blah, blah.... by the way, I know this is quite out of the blue ...
A. 15 October 2010: I've done something like this before. It may or may not work. Women like confidence and it takes guts to ask out someone you barely know, especially when they're at work. Instead of lunch I would suggest coffee, it's less threatening.
I think yo... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 15 October 2010: Thanks Maria for your response, it is very insightful. It's amazing how emotions can cloud your judgment and make even the simplest task seem impossible. You're right I have put her on a pedastel but, understand that in the beginning it was amazing. ... (read in full...)
She never calls me, so I'm thinking I should make the 2 hour drive and go see her! Any input?
Q. Hey my question is kind of long so here goes, my girlfriend left town a month ago, she says her mom and dad made a plan to ''kidnapp'' her. She hasnt ended things or anything of the sort, i on the other hand am trying to get over her but i cant get ...
A. 14 October 2010: If I were you I would be in my car already! Find out whats going on. I hope everything works out. ... (read in full...)
I get so upset when he leaves on business!
Q. Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 18 months has gone abroad for three weeks on a business trip. I get very upset when he leaves usually and he is aware of this. This time in order to stop me getting upset we have been talking everyday. I call him becau...
A. 14 October 2010: This doesn't seem to be a big issue to me. I went away once for a couple of weeks while I was seeing someone. It was very early on. She thought I was going to lose interest so I wrote her emails every day, to the point were I was getting pretty sick ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 14 October 2010: Thanks everyone for your advice. Last night I slept through the entire night for the first time in a month :)
At the moment I feel like reaching out to her and comforting her, even though I know nothing I do will make things better, it will pro... (read in full...)
Lonely... my boyfriend of two years just moved out, out of the blue!
Q. I am so confused.. my boyfriend of the last 2 years just moved out, out of the blue. We have lived together almost the entire time. We have had some money issues and he is not used to not having extra money to spend. He says he still wants to be ...
A. 14 October 2010: The guy sounds like a jerk. He just ups and leaves? When there are money problems? He moves in with a buddy who has recently separated. Someone said earlier that they are probably thinking along the same lines, and I agree.
Another thing, he hasn'... (read in full...)
Is my ex thinking of getting back with me later on...maybe?
Q. my bf broke up with me about 1 1/2 months ago, we talked here and there since then because I had hard time letting go. Few days ago we talked again, his phone kept dying and he was acting kind of unusual because he was trying hard to call me back a ...
A. 14 October 2010: He cares about you still and knows that the break up hurt you. If you can't be friends with him just tell him. You need to move on. It doesn't mean he won't want you back at some point in the future, but you shouldn't wait around in the hopes of ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 14 October 2010: Thank you very much for your response. What you have said is exactly what all of my friends have been telling me. I'd really like things to work out but I have to let go. I'm not going to chase her anymore, in fact as you can see I stated at that I ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 13 October 2010: So I called her, and she texted me back. This is the entire conversation. I need some help to figure out this out. Girl: “Thanks for the flowers, just don’t understand why do that, you said goodbye to me. I’m confused. But yeah, you don’t need t... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 13 October 2010: So the flowers were delivered at 8 pm, but she wasn't home. She`s not much of a night owl so she should be home soon... We would usually talk every night around 10-1030. Should I still call tonight?... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 13 October 2010: Well the flowers were delivered, but she wasn't home. Do you think I should still call her tonight? She's not much of a night owl, so she should be home tonight...... (read in full...)
Girlfriend acting suspicious. Cause for concern?
Q. My first ever question to Dear Cupid! This question may sound textbook, but I would like an outside opinion. About 6 weeks ago, my girlfriend decided to take some time apart. She said that she needed a week to think about what she really want...
A. 12 October 2010: Honestly, sounds to me like something is going on. I don't know what you should do about it but, I would definitely be concerned. Sorry I couldn't be of any more help. ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 12 October 2010: Thanks very much for your advice. So here is the game plan. I have no idea what kind of flowers she likes but I know she really likes the colour white, so I'm going to get her a dozen white roses. I'm going to use your letter, not mine. I think ... (read in full...)
I can't sit home bored all the time! Help!
Q. Well, firstly i will try to make this short ! and the question is, What do i do ? Basicly, I met my Girlfriend, ex should i say when i was 17. We had good communication between each other, were madley in Love, she even helped me get over a c...
A. 12 October 2010: I think you need to meet new friends. You should also stay productive. Join a gym, a soccer team, anything. You need to get out there and meet new people, you don't need stoner friends in your life. "you are who you hang out with", so I believe ... (read in full...)
I'm like a zombie...think I lost my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Guys I need some serious help. I met this girl off a free online dating website about 3 months ago. She is the girl of my dreams, she's what I've wanted my entire life. There is a lot to this so I'll keep it as brief as possible. I'm 28 and she's ...
A. 12 October 2010: Thank you for your response. I believe you are right a phone call would have been better. She has told me that she doesn't like texting. I tried calling her on Saturday, two days ago, with no answer. I'm not sure if she is going to answer another ... (read in full...)
How do I fix things and get them back to how they used to be?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and everything was going great up until about a month ago and then things changed drastically. He wanted me to open up and voice when I have a problem but it seems as though when I do ...
A. 11 October 2010: that is really bizarre. Something is obviously bothering him and it may not even be his relationship with you. I wouldn't push him too much or tell him how YOU feel, thats just going to put pressure on him and push him away. I think you can just be ... (read in full...)
He is showing a lot more interest...has his feelings changed?
Q. Is it typical for people, mainly guys, to assume a girl is their girlfriend if they never formally asked her to be? I'm asking because a year ago I met this guy. We became friends right off the bat and good friends at that. I considered him o...
A. 11 October 2010: He's obviously into you and I don't think he just wants sex. I think he was probably pretty angry that you blew him off on the weekend. The reference to his roomates girlfriend says it loud enough: He wants you around more. I wouldn't blow him off ... (read in full...)
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