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How do I get a second chance?

Q.   How does one get a second chance w/ an ex? We dated for a year, then lived together for 8 months. I made a lot of mistakes (as did he), but I want a second chance. We haven't talked in a couple of months now, any suggestions how I can get back on ...

A.   24 October 2007: There was no cheating on either side. Basically, he became pretty closed off / emotionally unavailable. I know he was under a tremendous amount of stress at work and financially. I was miserable in my job, as well, so I really just focused on us ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   27 June 2007: well...if anyone is still interested, here's the latest. We've been technically broken up for like 6 weeks, but we've managed to communicate almost every single day. He still hasn't fully moved out of the apartment either. Somehow we talked last ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   20 June 2007: Well...we had the run-in tonight. He called after work to see if he could come up for a few things. So he did. And, I asked him if I could say something to him and ask him a question pertaining to us and our situation. And, he said okay - ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   19 June 2007: P.S. I have started answering other people on this site, too, and I have to admit, you are right - it's been eye-opening even if their problems are very different than mine. ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   19 June 2007: Confusing doesn't even begin to describe it!!! I am trying to be very respectful of him, though. Honeslty, I do believe that this time apart has been good for us - well at least for me, I guess I don't really know what he's gotten from it. I have ... (read in full...)

All my friends have boyfriends and I'm really unhappy what can I do?

Q.   Hey, im 14 but have never had a boyfriend:( i have never kissed a boy or done anything!!!!!! All my friends have..i just have really bad confidence..and im overweight and i dont think im pretyy...pweezz help someone just to give me advice its ma...

A.   19 June 2007: The ONLY way to be happy in life, is to be happy with yourself. It sounds corny, but it's true. Find things that make you happy - maybe sports or a hobby or maybe even losing some weight will give you an added boost of self-confidence. You should ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex even though I am only 14?

Q.   me and one of my really good guy friends have been talking about having sex..because we feel there is something between us...but i am only 14..should i consider having sex w/ him?...

A.   19 June 2007: Please don't! You have your ENTIRE life ahead of you to have sex there is no need to rush!!! And, whether you want it to or not, it will change your relationship with your friend and it will change you. Not to mention, and I know you dont' want ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   14 June 2007: haha, I know, me a communicator?!?! I guess my next question is...what am I supposed to do now? I mean, I have SO many unanswered questions and I'm so unclear as to whether this is REALLY over (I take it, we are dunzo considering we both put ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   13 June 2007: It's just so strange to me. I guess because I am a communicator and always talk about my problems...Anyway, supposedly he is moving out; although, he really hasn't taken any of his stuff, yet (We've been technically broken up for a week and a ... (read in full...)

I'm So Confused

Q.   My husband serves in the royal navy, last year he went away for 5 months he left when I was three months pregnant and returned 2 weeks before our wedding. We had a lovely wedding, and I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy in November. However I have ...

A.   7 June 2007: I wouldn't worry. I got really jealous when my boyfriend went to a strip club and got a lap dance. Then, we went to the strip club one night together. It's really just a game there and, even though there are naked ladies rubbing up and down our ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   6 June 2007: Yeah, I think you're actually really right. I think he needs to see that I can grow up, start taking care of my own possessions better, myself better and be a mature independent woman. I sorta got lazy with my life I feel like...and I think he ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   4 June 2007: So...it's over. We ended it last night/this morning. It was a LOONNG break-up. But, also, a strange one. He kept kissing me (on the lips) and telling me that he loved me and holding me, and we both cried and we talked about past times and future ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   4 June 2007: Update: What a JERK! So, we were on a week break and today (Sunday) the week was up. I tried to call him, but he didn't answer (and he doesn't check voicemail), so I left him a quick text saying that iI hope he's enjoyed his week and that I was ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   29 May 2007: Me again - with a new realization of my own. After reading all of these reponses and a few relationship articles (i.e. Men are from Mars Women are from Venus). I think I've come to the realization that I haven't been a very good girlfriend. This ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   29 May 2007: Okay, here's an update: First, a thanks - I really appreciate everyone's answers. And, I know that he really does just need some space. I think I have a tendenacy to take everything too personally. When we talked about everything, he said he did ... (read in full...)

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