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Mixed Signs Or Am I Love Struck?

Q.   I usually know what to do but right now I'm CLUELESS. I'm very close to this guy who I have known for awhile. We don't live close anymore due to me moving to Germany. Him and I talk every night and webcam a lot. The other night while on the phone he...

A.   16 April 2010: It really sounds like he's sending mixed messages. I think there's two options to this, which is either 1)that he likes you but doesn't want to pursue it because you get on so well. or 2)he's sending mixed messages to kep you hanging, some people ... (read in full...)

I have been trying to get pregnant for 7 months and nothing has happened! Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   hi i have been married for 7 months and im been trying to get pregnant. Im 21 years old and im just wondering is there something wrong with me? Should i be stressing out? I have tried everything but still no baby ...

A.   16 April 2010: If you have taken the contraceptive pill within the last 18 months that wuldn't help, as it takes 18 months after taking it to be totally back to your fertile self :) On google you can find supplements which are meant to help x... (read in full...)

We had to break up because of our religions! What should I do?

Q.   hi cupid i have a girlfriend but we've just broken up and we love each other a lot but problem is that she is sikh and i am hindu and she says her parents wont allow hindu boys. what should i do i cant live with out her plz help ...

A.   16 April 2010: I think you need to fight for her...but if she doesn't want you back then i'm sorry. I had a boyfriend/fiance who was a muslim and i'm catholic, but we wouldnt let any one stand in our way, and even though we broke up in the end, people were coming ... (read in full...)

Questions about pregnancy.....

Q.   If you think you may be pregnant, would you still ovulate and have discharge? ...

A.   16 April 2010: When you ovulate, it means you have producaed eggs to be more fertile so it is possible, and the majority of people tend to discharge when this happens x... (read in full...)

Sometimes I wish I could just dissapear!

Q.   Hi, I am a mother of 5, my oldest daughter is graduating this year...Then I have a 16 year old daughter and a 14 year old son, a 11 and 10 year old daughters. Well, when I was 20 I was ran over by a drunk driver, I had a spinal cord injury, I never ...

A.   15 April 2010: God you've been through hell and back your poor thing! I'm so sorry you had to go through all that, but i agree you really need to think of your kids, have you thought about talking to your gp about this? anti depressants can help, and councelling ... (read in full...)

Why is NOT wearing a bra so important to my husband?

Q.   Whenever I am away from work, and I am talking nights, weekends, and vacations, my husband insists that I don't wear a bra. I thought you had to be 18 and/or flat chested to do that. Being 31 and having a full bosom, I have been worried that my ...

A.   15 April 2010: I think it's to do with going back to male caveman instincts as not wearing a bra is natural, and way ovr 90% of men prefer natural, whether it be not wearing a bra or not wearing makeup but if you're not comfortable with it i think you should ... (read in full...)

Could this get me pregnant?

Q.   Me and my boyfreind were dry humping, he asked me to relieve him and I let him cum over my breasts and stomach and there was loads of it, I cleaned it up with toilet paper and had a bath about an hour later, my friend said that was silly because I ...

A.   14 April 2010: Very very unlikely.... (read in full...)

How can I stop that from happening?

Q.   I'm 17 and have had my first proper girlfriend for 2 weeks now. I've got to second base with girls before but have never actually had my penis properly touched, and my girlfriend has jerked me off twice. The first time she had been rubbing my ...

A.   13 April 2010: One in three people are like this on their first sexual or foreplay experiences, so it isn't abnormal and nothing to worry about. I have had sexual experiences with men, ad some haven't lasted as long as they haven't expcted to, but it is a ... (read in full...)

I pushed her away, but now I want her back and she wont reply.

Q.   we dated 5years back.while in high school.our love was so real that we won the award for the best couple.a year after graduation,we parted ways but without any breakup or fight.we just lost contact and it remained so until few weeks back when she ...

A.   13 April 2010: You need to express your love better to her, you can't just phone her, you need to show her that you do truely love her. You could do this by sending her flowers or a gift to her door, you could bump into her somewhere wearing a suit and holding ... (read in full...)

Am I gay because I sometimes have weird fantasies?

Q.   Basically im 14 and not sure if im straight, bi, whatever. I know that i am attracted to girls and have even had occasioinal girlfriends. when i have masturbated i've only ever used straight porn the thing is I dont get at all hard from gay po...

A.   13 April 2010: Don't worry about it, everyone goes through a stage where they think about the same sex, it is only natural, and as you are young your going to wonder what the same sex looks like as all males are different. No one can help what their brain is ... (read in full...)

I cant stay erect when I penetrate him, and we never use condoms

Q.   Hey Guys and Girls I am a relationship with this guy and everything is going really well and I love him to bits. The problem is when it comes to penitrating him I cant seem to stay erect, even tho I am really horny.So he always has to do it ...

A.   13 April 2010: If this is the first man you have been in a relationship with, you may be slightly nervous which can cause erectile disfunction. A good idea is to try moreforeplay beforethe big moment to make you feel more comfortable. The fact that you have ... (read in full...)

Is this normal after having sex for the first time?

Q.   i had sex for the first time two days ago, he didnt properly go in fully, but he went in a little bit cos it hurt so much but since, i've been having a lot of discharge :S is that normal? ...

A.   12 April 2010: Yes it an be normal, many first times have been known for a guy not to enter them "fully" due to the tightness, and sometmes your muscles will tighten automatically as it is an experience you aren't used to. Discharge can be normal, but it is best ... (read in full...)

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