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How can I get my dad to allow me a bf??

Q.   My dad won't let me have a boyfriend and i'm 13. What can i do to allow me to have a boyfriend? He said i could do something called courting and thats when i invite a boy over my house to watch TV and my dad questions the hell out of him; that is ...

A.   2 February 2008: Be happy he cares for you ^^. I know a lot of people who would kill to have a father that protective, and I can tell you most of them HAVE had a pregnancy scare at one point. At the same time, I've been quizzed by dad's and it's one of the most off ... (read in full...)

He makes me feel unwanted and ugly and I am starting to feel like cheating is the only way.

Q.   I've been in a relationship for 8 years now.Of course my significant other watches porn and at first I had no problem with it but now it seems to be a huge problem for me. We went to having sex all the time to where he couldn't keep his hands of...

A.   2 February 2008: We always have a choice in life, and i certainly believe cheating is not the answer. I'd say that 9 out of ten answers on this site boil down to: talk to them, so saying likewise for this will hardly be revolutionary. His infatuation with por... (read in full...)

Torn between two men and when something goes wrong I always run to the other one.

Q.   I have two men in my life and can't choose between them. It is causing me great turmoil, so much so, I have lost my job and I am overall not handling things well. I had (guy 1) as the end all be all. Completely fallin' in love with him and wanted t...

A.   2 February 2008: Obviously I can't tell you the intricacies of what your feeling and how to sort it out, no one can, but I can give you an opinion from a third perspective. Going PURELY on what you've said, I would have imagined that the 2nd is more likely t... (read in full...)

Betrayed by my best friend and ex...but I still want to be her friend.

Q.   My bf left me for who i thought was my best friend because he said that he had feelings for her. It got to the point where i had to ask him why he even went out with me in the first place and he said he doesn't know. I then asked if he was leaving ...

A.   2 February 2008: First of all, you've got to realize that your friend has nothing to do with your boyfriend leaving you. She may have been the reason he left, but remember that was his decision and had nothing to do with her. Equally, I can see where your coming ... (read in full...)

His contact with other women is killing my feelings & desires towards him

Q.   I'm a little embarrassed, but I need advise again. My boyfriend continues to have contact with his ex's and I have gotten to the point that I am becoming so resentful towards him, that I am beginning to feel like I am not attracted to him anymore....

A.   2 February 2008: As you've yet to have a male response I feel I should fill in the other side to the coin. Although I completely agree that telling him about your feelings can only be beneficial whether the news is good or otherwise, equally you have to understand ... (read in full...)

Is he trying to tell me something, reading out this text infront of me??

Q.   Hi, There is this guy tht has told me he likes me, but hasn't said it to my face just over msn, this was a few months ago but since he hasnt mentioned anything and has carried on like we are friends. However, there is awkwardness between us and r...

A.   2 February 2008: The fact he lied and said it was his sister probably means he wasn't trying to make you jealous, equally the fact he asked your friend to inadvertently 'read it out' in front of you possibly means he was after some response. I can say I've don... (read in full...)

Is this just a passing phase??

Q.   Hi i'm 16 , and i'm a bit lost at the moment. I'm attracted to girls and boys, but i've never really had the chance to experiment with boys. I also like to wear girls clothes. Is this just a passing phase? Will it pass in time? What should i do? ...

A.   2 February 2008: Your friends may not admit it, but chances are a lot of them are going through something very similar. Around your age, your testosterone levels are playing havoc with your feelings and opinions, so what your experiencing is normal. Even I had my ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my bfs crush??

Q.   I think my boyfriend of 3.5 years has a crush on another girl and I was wondering what you all think... should I be worried about it? He has never told me and I have never asked but when she is around and he talks to her, I can sense an attraction. ...

A.   1 February 2008: To jump straight to an answer I would ask him. If he doesn't like her then it's no harm done, and will only show him how strongly you feel towards him. If he does, then it gives you a chance to talk it over, and see why he feels he should be ... (read in full...)

I feel pathetic over feeling hurt cause my friend likes another girl.

Q.   Im in love with a friend, he's not close and he is 2 years older than me. I've told him that i like him but he doesnt feel the same. We are still friends and talk to each other but, it hurts soo much knowing that he likes another girl. Please help ...

A.   1 February 2008: There's nothing pathetic about it at all, we've all been there and we've all felt the same way about it after. To be honest, I'm in a similar situation. I don't know if this applies to you but this is what she said to me: "I wouldn't want to damage ... (read in full...)

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