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Hurt beyond repair?

Q.   Hurt beyond repair? (I still love him) I have been married for 10+ years. We were really special when we met our friends referred to us a Romeo and Juliet. Over the years our kids have caused us to argue and fight verbally really bad. In a...

A.   2 October 2008: well, I don't think married men should be friends with and talk about their problems in marriage with single women or even married women for that matter.... No offense- women are just....well..you know. Any way... Cell phones suck--they are the caus... (read in full...)

Is he a Controling husband or am I just weird?

Q.   My Husband wants to know every where i go, gives me a time frame and hates that I am close to my family. if I don't tell him that I will have lunch with my mom and than I tell him when I am at lunch that i am having lunch with my mother he asks why ...

A.   2 October 2008: Why do men hit women? CONTROL... Yes, he is controlling and will continue to do so until you stop it.... SO STOP IT!!! If you have a logical thinking husband... you can try to bring this up for discussion and see if he is willing to work on it ... (read in full...)

How can I reclaim my life and feel better about myself?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, since I was a senior in high school. I have a complicated family life; my dad was mentally, physically, and sexually abusive and was kicked out of the house when I finally told my mom at age sixteen. ...

A.   2 October 2008: Ok sweet young girl...let's chat! We have a lot in common young lady...except I am years older and have lived through a bunch of crap. Please take into consideration what I am about to say.... A girl learns so much from a relationship with her fath... (read in full...)

I know I do need to make changes, so why does she still call and can I win her heart back?

Q.   Hello my I want to explain the whole situation so bare with me because I do appreciate advice and want you to be on the same page and know the story. Here it is...I met this girl last year and my life was in a rut because of the death of my ...

A.   2 October 2008: WOW! My husband is an alcoholic... sounds like you may have a problem (seeing that drinking was named as a problem several times) it sounds as though she loves you and sees your "other side" which is a hard situation for a woman. She is thinking of ... (read in full...)

I think he's having an affair, now it's very awkward, how should I handle this situation?

Q.   I am needing some insight and help here and where better a place to ask..many level headed answers I have noticed. About three months ago I went out for drinks with a man at work to whom I was attracted. Things got a little hot and heavy but, t...

A.   2 October 2008: Well, IDK. Leave them be...they deserve eachother---do not lower yourself to that level. You know this type of man... he is on an ego boost... He is obviously loving it and getting his ego quite pumped. If you want to keep pumping his ego-keep ... (read in full...)

I'm the other woman. Your opinions?

Q.   i dont know what my purpose is in asking other people's opinions because i know what what your opinions will be... i guess i want everyone to reiterate what i already know...that cheating's bad...blah blah blah.. anywhooo, here it goes: i current...

A.   2 October 2008: the funny thing is....You "THINK" he is the best guy and that his wife is oh so lucky.... What you see is not always what you get. What you are seeing is what this guy wants you to see. It is so easy (especially for men) to put on a cool act. Try ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.

Q.   Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band ...

A.   2 October 2008: oh sweetheart.... no no no! This guy should be arrested. You (even though you may disagree) are still a baby. You still have so much to learn about life. And of coarse you are in love with him...I am sure he has swept you off your feet, plus you ... (read in full...)

I hit my wife how do I make it up to her?

Q.   I Hit my wife four months ago and can't forgive myself. We were in a heated argument and I lost my temper and slaped her in the face. I would never hurt her she is the best thing that ever happened to me and I love her and can't live without her. ...

A.   2 October 2008: My husband hit me a few weeks ago when he was drinking and I wanted to take him to his Mom's cause of past experiences when he drinks---basically I wanted to drive him to his Mom's-- he wanted to leave himself--- drive in his car--i didn't want that ... (read in full...)

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