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Problems with my body.. help?

Q.   okay so i have a couple questions here about my body.. 1. My boobs seem to be getting smaller sometimes, i don't wear a bra to bed but sometimes when i wake up they seem smaller.. is it possible that they can shrink? what can i do to stop this... ...

A.   20 May 2008: 1. your boobs probably aren't really getting smaller. it just seems that way because that is what your mind is telling you to think. I'm sure they're just fine and not really changeable. 2. stretch marks can be hereditary so you can't really p... (read in full...)

He's leaving for a year! Should I just end it now so as not to prolong the pain?

Q.   dear cupid, i have been in a long term relationship since i was 19 years old.i had jus finished school and he was finishing up a course at college and we met working in a summer job.i then started an intensive college degree which i am finishin...

A.   17 May 2008: i dont think it means he doesnt want to be with you. i desperately want to travel for at least a year but i'm madly in love with my boyfriend. i dont want him to think that i'm abandoning him but i know that it's something that i need to do in my ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?

Q.   Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...

A.   17 May 2008: hun i know that you said you're sick of people telling you that you're too young but compared to him you really are. there is such a large growing period in between 12 and 27 and getting into a relationship such as that would take way too much out ... (read in full...)

I need help with getting her to open up more to me.

Q.   I'm referring to my girlfriend. Her and I have been going out for a while now (half a year or so) and she hasn't really opened up too much to me yet. I've done my fair share of talking, so I don't get why she isn't talking. Please help!...

A.   16 May 2008: you may be doing you "fair share" of talking but i was just wondering....have you been doing a lot of asking? maybe if the two of you go back and forth asking eachother questions that mean a lot to both of you then you will be able to learn more ... (read in full...)

Should I try talking to my best friend, or wait for her to contact me?

Q.   [Moderator's note, names have been changed to protect privacy.] I'll try my best to describe the situation that I am in. Well see my best friend Alexa has a a cousin and her name is Mara and they don't like each other. I talk to both of them the...

A.   16 May 2008: if you want to solve anything you have got to make the first move. she may be wondering the same thing, whether or not to confront you. and if you dont, you may be losing a good friend.... (read in full...)

How do you tell a friend that you like him but not make it obvious?

Q.   how can you tell a guy that you like him but not making it obvious? there is this guy I like but I dont want to make it so obvious that I like him because it would destroy are friendship ...

A.   16 May 2008: now i know this may not be such great advice but....i had the same problem last year. i was completely in love with my best friend but i didnt want him to know because i didnt want him to get freaked out and stop talking to me. well it ended up ... (read in full...)

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