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Was I confused, or did this guy show signs that he was interested in me? If so, what do I do?

Q.   Warning, get settled in. I'm not totally "sheltered" but extreme conservative. This 50-year-old, 6', 175 lb.-a bit too husky but long torso'd, more-than-attractive say all, never-married Texas gal, deeply dedicated Christian (a virgin until 36...

A.   14 February 2006: After reading your question, it seemed that this guy was definately interested in you. A guy wouldnt go out and buy you a drink like that unless he had some sort of interest in you. I think he was interested in you until you mentioned that you ... (read in full...)

He talked me into anal on the basis that I'm still - technically - a virgin. That doesn't make it feel any better though!

Q.   I am a 16 yr old girl. I have been involved with the same guy for 2 years. We both had are both sexual experience together. Ii went down on him but he is pressuring sex on me and I keep saying no. So now he has talked me into anal sex, saying I...

A.   9 January 2006: I had a boyfriend like yours once. I told him I wasnt ready to lose my virginity so he would pressure me to do all sorts of things that I wasnt comfortable with. He laughed at me when I told him I had never given anyone a blow job, and made me ... (read in full...)

What are the chances that our relationship will work with a 17 year age difference?

Q.   What are possible difficulties that could arise from having a 17 year age difference in a relationship? I'm 27 and the guy I like is 44. I really love him and he loves me, but already we've had comments that I looked like his daughter. I've a...

A.   9 January 2006: Thankyou everyone for your answers. I just wanted to add ( I didn't mention this already) that this man that I love had never had any children. This is a good thing for me because according to some of your responses, children from another ... (read in full...)

Afraid that guys will be turned off by my pubic hair!

Q.   I am so afraid that guys will be turned-off by my pubic hair. I don't know what I am supposed to do. Should I shave? Should I wax? Or just let it grow into a horrible looking bush? What do most women do? Does this really gross out guys?...

A.   27 November 2005: I think that most guys prefer clean, neat, and trimmed real estate!!! I've heard lots of guys complain when they seem a retro 1970's era bush. And to be honest, being a woman myself, I hate it when my pubic hair gets too long because it pokes out ... (read in full...)

When he catches my eye, he winks at me. Should I ignore it?

Q.   My other half and I have been meeting up with a group of people and their other halves at our local for the past 6 months. More recently one of the blokes if he catches my eye will then wink at me when nobody is looking. Sometimes I feel awkward ...

A.   9 November 2005: Guys wink at me all the time. I don't think you should take it too seriously. Usually they just do it to make you feel at ease, but some guys do it as a way to flirt with you. If this guy knows you are married then I think his winks are harmless ... (read in full...)

My guy seems more interested in dope-smoking and video games than our future. Will he ever grow up?

Q.   I was ugly in high school and could never get a boyfriend, so when I got out of high school I was searching for one high and low. I fell in love with a loser. I know he loves me but I just think we don't have enough in common. When we first go...

A.   5 November 2005: WOW!!! For a minute there I thought I was reading my diary from 6 years ago!! You are excactly the way I was when I was 21. I was a major nerd in highschool and never had a boyfriend, so when my ex showed an interest in me (even though he was a ma... (read in full...)

Am I always going to be alone...forever? Are there any guys out there for me?

Q.   I have just turned 39 and I'm freaking out at the prospect of being loveless forever! Note that I say loveless and not " alone " , as I have no problem being by myself.I have never had a serious b.friend, even though I have always wanted a serious ...

A.   1 November 2005: I'm sorry to sound negative, but I think the reason that your havent found Mr. Right is that you are 39 and still going to the bars and having one night stands. So most men who are looking for a wife would think that you're not marriage material. A... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't give up smoking, no matter what I threaten...

Q.   I try to get my boyfriend to quit smoking and I also threatened to leave this relationship, but he seems to not care about the fact that I'm willing to sacrifice anything for him. He wouldn't even give it up to make me happy. We fight about th...

A.   1 November 2005: OMG I can totally relate to your dilemma. My ex boyfriend was a chain smoker and he was rude enough to smoke IN MY CAR!!! I finally told him he wasnt allowed to in my car and he was really pissed off. He would get mad if I didnt give him money ... (read in full...)

My ex-teacher shares his romantic life with me, and I can't stand it!

Q.   I'm madly in love with my ex teacher and it's killing me. Recently he got married and he emailed me telling me all about it, when I just don't want to hear it! He says we can't be friends and yet he tells me his life story and I do the same. Th...

A.   14 October 2005: Normally I would say a ten year age difference wasnt a big deal but 15 and 25 are two worlds apart. If you were 20 and he were 30 I would tell you to just be friends because he is married. But because you are only 15 I'm worried what still being ... (read in full...)

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