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I'm only looking to understand this crazy world & even crazier people! Not a full understanding. No. Just enough to get me through each agonising day. Of course, getting help to understand is always a good start.

Has anyone had a good experience on antidepressants?

Q.   I'm clinically depressed. It's genetic and everyone in my family suffers from it. I'm not looking for a happy pill so much as to just be able to get through my day without having a few bad spells along the way. Has anyone had a good experien...

A.   7 January 2009: You're right. There's is no Happy Pill. Unfortunately all medication have side effects, but your doctor should discuss any likely ones which may relate to you. Don't concentrate on the list of side effects! Your depression will only distort any ... (read in full...)

Resolution Number 1 Equals The End of The Affair?

Q.   Well, I've gone and done it. I've put an end to my affair. Full stop. Thanks for help Dear Cupids. Your advice and guidance have given me strength to resolve my feelings (or, at least, make a start). Resolve not revolve. Finished going round in...

A.   2 January 2009: Thanks for the replies. Yes, DiovanLestat, I'm trying to follow to your kind advice. Face2Face would have been better, but...oh well. She responded today with an email: "Yes, it was a surprise. But I respect your decision. Goodbye A" ... (read in full...)

How to kill the love

Q.   "Press the button!" I hear you all shout. Press the button and She'll disappear? Oh, if only it were that easy. I want to finish with my mistress. Okay, I'm not gonna murder Her. I'm only trying to murder the 'love' that I thought I had for Her. How ...

A.   31 December 2008: [UPDATE] Here's my journey guided by my Dear Cupids this festive: (search the DearCupid question list for...) 1. How not to lose your mistress? 2. Is an affair ever justified? 3. How to kill the love? 4. Resolution Number 1 Equals The End o... (read in full...)

How not to lose your mistress?

Q.   "...that must be very difficult..," the woman from Samaritans kept on saying. I knew things were difficult, I didn't need her to only remind me! I'm not suicidal, but my last panic attack over living without my mistress was crippling me! How not t...

A.   31 December 2008: [UPDATE] Here's my journey guided by my Dear Cupids this festive: (search the DearCupid question list for...) 1. How not to lose your mistress? 2. Is an affair ever justified? 3. How to kill the love? 4. Resolution Number 1 Equals The End o... (read in full...)

How not to lose your mistress?

Q.   "...that must be very difficult..," the woman from Samaritans kept on saying. I knew things were difficult, I didn't need her to only remind me! I'm not suicidal, but my last panic attack over living without my mistress was crippling me! How not t...

A.   27 December 2008: Thanks for the levity. Although they do say that drowning quickly turns to feelings of comfort and warmth. Maybe I'm better off where I am. I may even grow gills. Evolution? (Yeah, I know I'm already slimy & start to stink after a few days!).... (read in full...)

How to kill the love

Q.   "Press the button!" I hear you all shout. Press the button and She'll disappear? Oh, if only it were that easy. I want to finish with my mistress. Okay, I'm not gonna murder Her. I'm only trying to murder the 'love' that I thought I had for Her. How ...

A.   27 December 2008: Ta, R092. Yes, I want to plan my 'speech' to Her. Be honest, clear and, by God, finish it! I'm not being cruel or angry about this (apart from with myself). I still want Her to be happy; just not with me. My fear: She'll immediately go off in a bad... (read in full...)

How not to lose your mistress?

Q.   "...that must be very difficult..," the woman from Samaritans kept on saying. I knew things were difficult, I didn't need her to only remind me! I'm not suicidal, but my last panic attack over living without my mistress was crippling me! How not t...

A.   27 December 2008: Thank you, EyesClampedShut. Although your pronunciation of 'SWIM' appears to be delivered as 'drown you b*st*rd' Very helpful. Very Cupid. Oh, stem1981, a wee bit of background: the one good friend I could've hoped to discuss my problems wit... (read in full...)

How not to lose your mistress?

Q.   "...that must be very difficult..," the woman from Samaritans kept on saying. I knew things were difficult, I didn't need her to only remind me! I'm not suicidal, but my last panic attack over living without my mistress was crippling me! How not t...

A.   27 December 2008: My mistress, half jokingly, said that 'of course she was using me' & that she uses anyone in order to get what She and her daughter need. Yes, we are all selfish to some degree. But Her statement has always bothered me. She's never said 'I love you'... (read in full...)

How not to lose your mistress?

Q.   "...that must be very difficult..," the woman from Samaritans kept on saying. I knew things were difficult, I didn't need her to only remind me! I'm not suicidal, but my last panic attack over living without my mistress was crippling me! How not t...

A.   24 December 2008: Thanks guys. Well, thanks to most of you. For others, sorry, yelling 'SWIM' to the drowning man, ain't that helpful. I'm sinking, not waving! Honestly. The theory of right & wrong is pretty clear, but Temptation is the practical test. I know I'm ... (read in full...)

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