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I'm ready for sex...but how to ask mum for the pill?

Q.   dear readers, ok here is the thing i want to have sex. i have in a wonderful relationship with a guy i have been with for 3 years and we are both ready. the crux is my mum always told me that i should come to her and ask for the birth control fi...

A.   27 March 2011: Well my gf has the same relationship with her mum as u do with urs exept that when my gf told her mum we were haveing sex her mum actualy suggested to me my gf that condoms were shit and that the pill was better, awkward moment, but at least now me ... (read in full...)

Is he insecure? Should we continue our relationship?

Q.   Im 18 year college student and I've been dating a 22 year old college student for 4 months. A lot of guys ask me out because they're sexually attracted to me which causes our relationship to stumble. Im 5'3 122 pounds and he's 5'10 240 pounds a...

A.   21 March 2011: Yes, he is definatly insecure, u have 2 choices, 1. Talk to himdirectly and openly about ur feelings and see where it goes from there or 2. Leave him, all he want is sex, thats not right, y do uvthink hes insecure becoz he know he not pleaseing u ... (read in full...)

Up to now its been nothing but a smooch, but I want to tear his clothes from him

Q.   Hi Everyone Really hoping for some advice and reassurance. First some history. I split up with my ex husband 3 years ago, and apart from a fling right after the breakup (definate rebound fling) I havent slept with anyone since. Partly throug...

A.   19 March 2011: Dont worry, you feel like you have forgoten, but you will remember when it come time, its like rideing a bike, you never forget how to do that so how can enjoying a man be any different ;)... (read in full...)

All my friends are losing their virginity will I be left out

Q.   Dear Cupid I'm 16 years old and I'm still a virgin, all of my friends are loosing their virginity and soon I feel like I'm going to be the only one left, I think that I'm ready for sex but I'm scared at the same time and very self conscious about my...

A.   19 March 2011: The longer you stay a virgin, the more fullfilling sex will be when u do eventualy have it... (read in full...)

Not ready for sex yet. But later will being plump cause me problems with guys?

Q.   i'm worried about what a boy would think of me naked. although i am NOT going to have sex yet, i'm afraid of whether i would be judged. i'm not really fat, but i definately have a lot of bulge. i have lines on my hips and the inside of my legs. pub...

A.   19 March 2011: If u r going to have sex with a guy who isnt happy with the way u look then ur haveing sex with the wrong guy, so if hes realy the right guy for u to be intimate with then he shouldnt care about a little extra bulge or hair, the hair is hair it can ... (read in full...)

Help for the first time?

Q.   I have been going out with my boyfriend for six months now and i feel ready for sex, we've tried before but it just hurts me alot, so i was wondering if theres any advice for first time? i heard taking paracetamol helps....

A.   18 March 2011: Advice that will help, 1. Talk to him tell him how ur feeling 2. Take it slow 3. Use lube it will assist in penetration an the reduction of friction which causes pain 4. Let him be on top ull feel more relaxed and comfortable 5. Thats all :) j... (read in full...)

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm ready for sex?

Q.   So, here's the problem- my boyfriend and i have been dating for nearly a year. I am ready and willing to have sex with him, However i don't know how to tell him i'm ready. Should i just suduce him? Should i start touching him while kissing? i have ...

A.   18 March 2011: If u suduce him he will just think u want to be touched, u need to hve a talk with him so he knows ir ready, and one day wjen ur both in the mood eiyher after foreplay or just in the mood u should ask him if hes in the mood and that ur ready and go ... (read in full...)

He won't be intimate with me, but he has no problem watching porn when I'm not around!

Q.   Why would a man over many years, regularly avoid sex with his wife? We would have sex about 2 times a month at most. I would try to initiate about 3 times a week, but get the "i'm tired" excuse. We argued alot about sex, I felt like something was ...

A.   18 March 2011: Hes reterted, must be, cant think of any other reason, maybe buy urself a dildo or vibrator and make him jelous, his attitude may change when he sees u pleasing urself, guys dont like it when women please themselves, so try it cant hurt to try, or ... (read in full...)

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