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He's talks big about sexcapades, but he doesn't come through in the bedroom!

Q.   Why does my new boyfriend talk big but not act on it? I've been seeing this guy a few months. He lately has been descriptive of what he wants to do to me in bed. He says things like "I wanna Butt F* u" or "are you ready to get on all fours and purr ...

A.   21 April 2010: Thus the saying "empty barrel makes the most noise"... (read in full...)

She told me she cheated on me and broke up with me, but I want her back

Q.   Me and this girl starting dating around valentine's day. She was my first love. I'm thinking this is the girl im going to marry. We were great for about a month and a half and one day she starts pushing me away. She told me I was clinging and she ...

A.   19 April 2010: It looks like she is not interested in continuing with you. The fact that she told you she chaeted twice while going out with you is hint enough that her heart is not for you. You are still young,you will learn that there will be others, and always ... (read in full...)

Does jelquing actually work? And will my penis be too short for my future wife?

Q.   okay, I'm 17 years old, I'm a virgin and I do want to abstain from sex untill I'm married. my penis is about six inches long when erect, my question is: does jelquing work and if so, in what stage of my erection should I start the excersize?? and is ...

A.   16 April 2010: Well at your age, the size appears slightly above average for that age. It will probably grow still till you are in your early 20ies. So its not too short.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is acting really strange, what could be going on?

Q.   I am 24 years old, and my boyfriend is 31.We have been dating for almost three years. About four months ago, he wanted a piece of paper and pen to find out what the cost of something would be, i recently found that piece of paper i gave him and he ...

A.   16 April 2010: Maybe he is expecting a 12 month salary bonus and after calculating the total amount he is planning to buy you a very expensive diamond ring. Just wait and hope this come true.... (read in full...)

Should I go on a date with a married man? He's so hot

Q.   Hello guys I'm a 22 year old woman and well i was getting some work done waiting for the owner to get an estimate and this super hot guy walked in he kept checking me out so neways he was like your incredibly beautiful and I told him thanks he kept ...

A.   8 April 2010: What kind of a chance are you thinking of giving him? Since he is so good looking and appears ever ready to chase beautiful girls, I am assuming that you are planning to give him a chance for more sex outside marriage???? However hot he is, he is... (read in full...)

He doesn't believe I was a virgin!

Q.   Alrite so theres this guy .. we've been dating about 7 mnths now... and we had sex for the first time ... he was a virgin and so was i !... i've never been physical with any guy in my life expect him. then after the sex he tells me that he does...

A.   7 April 2010: Anyway how do you know hes telling the truth that he is a virgin anyway???? His foreskin fully closed maybe???? I think he is taking you for a ride thats all, you know you are a virgin, so does he. maybe he is on a mission to deflower virgins. If he ... (read in full...)

Is making out with another girl considered cheating?

Q.   I have been in a serious relationship over for a year and a half. Occasionally, when I go out with my friends, I make out with other girls. My boyfriend is aware of this. However, the other night, I ended up sleeping with another girl. Should I tell ...

A.   6 April 2010: When you are intimate with other than your partner, you are cheating him, irrespective whether the other person is female or male. Simple as that!!!... (read in full...)

My husband of 3 months has been cheating on me with a whore!

Q.   I am so devastated my husband of three months has been cheating on me. I found emails were he has gone back and forth discussing price etc.the woman was a hooker on Craigslist. He tells me this is the only one but it still doesn't make it better. I ...

A.   6 April 2010: His action is completely wrong, whether you have been married for 3 days or 30 years, but of course its much harder to believe that after 3 months marriage he is already on the prowl. Its 3 months because thats the time time it took you to find out, ... (read in full...)

How can I kiss her? She's almost a foot shorter than I am!

Q.   I need to know the best way to kiss a girl who is almost a foot shorter than me because I really love this girl but I cant figure out how to kiss her because I dont want to bend at the knees cause that just ssems like it would be rude to do and i ...

A.   6 April 2010: I am with a companion who is more than one foot shorter and i have no problem with that. Just as they say practice makes perfect. Anyway, it may be a hassle only if your female friend is a foot taller than you and shes wearing high heels. even then ... (read in full...)

Most guys always tell me I have nice boobs...but I really hate them. What can I do?

Q.   I dont know if im the only female who really feels this way.. but i hate my boobs ..extremly. Most boys always tell me I have nice boobs, because there larger then most girls yet I still maintain a small body But I on the other hand hate them I ...

A.   6 April 2010: You can trust boys when they give opinion especially re your boobs. They are particularly harsh and truthful esp if your boobs are ugly, theres no reason for them to lie. So if I were you appreciate and be happy with what god has given you, am ... (read in full...)

I am female, watch porn, but feel awkward watching sex scenes in movies if my boyfriend is around.

Q.   i know my boyfriend and me both enjoy watching porn, tho we never speak about it to eachother. it seems socially awkward. i masterbate to porn behind his back sometimes, i dont believe he even knows. and i dont believe he masterbates to porn(unless ...

A.   31 March 2010: As long as you do not start making comparison between the actor's tool and your BF's, and similarly as long as he doesnt make comparison your attributes with that of the actress then everything will be fine. however tempted you are, pls dont ever ... (read in full...)

Tired of masturbating and watching porn...

Q.   I really need help...I am tired of doing this..I masturbate everyday 2-3 times..and I watch porn for masturbation...almost everyday...I hate it but to masturbate I watch it...I wanna stop doing it and watching porn...How should I stop it? Please ...

A.   31 March 2010: All you need to do is just to switch off the TV, go out and have fun with your friends. then the girls will come into the picture, and after that you will realise you have wasted so much precious time which would have gotten you real actual sex.... (read in full...)

How big a deal IS sex and fidelity in a marriage?

Q.   Hi, I am a 24 year old married girl. I got married 2 years ago. I dont have any kids and my husband is away for the past year. I want to know how big a deal is sex. I love my husband, but i do not think that I should only have sex with him. I occa...

A.   31 March 2010: You have sex with others without any emotional feeling????? i thought that statement should only come from a call girl, at least they get paid for being laid.... (read in full...)

She said I was too small for her. Do other girls think the same?!

Q.   I was with my girl and one thing led to another at that time... When the pants came off, she just looked blankly and told me bluntly "Hun... you're sorta too small. I... don't think you can do it for me." Then she got up flustered, apologiz...

A.   30 March 2010: Though I am not sure if a survey has been carried out, I would say one out of twenty has a biggie. So you are not really a loner, you have 90% of the male population as company. To the question whether size matters, I would say with porno so common ... (read in full...)

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