She flirted but never intended to date me! Confused!
Q. Hi.i got a small problem.MY friend is 56 and me 42.A while ago she was sending me messages that we were goin to be an item.i in stoke, she in glasgow.and so it went on until a sunday where she came out with deep feelings for me and was confused cos ...
A. 31 January 2008: She may have just wanted to have sex, have you condidered that? The flirting may have been for that, when you didn't 'rise' to the flirting, she distanced herself, she went and found someone who would have sex with her. Hey, it's just a guess but ... (read in full...)
He signed himself up on a dating site and he's looking for singles adds in the papers. Is he looking to cheat on me?
Q. My 30 yr. old boyfriend just built one of those interactive webpages were you can meet new people and add them to your list of 'friends'. Like everything he does and likes he has become kind of addicted to it, adding his pictures to the page (me ...
A. 29 January 2008: Hi, I'm a bloke and I believe he unfortunately is not in love with you anymore. The porn is not the issue but, as you know, the dating sites are not good. He is not happy so he is getting satisfaction from looking at the sites and having fantasies ... (read in full...)
I need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship...
Q. Need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship with a man I still love. I'm 43 He's 46.. Talked of marriage in the past, lived with him for 3 years out of the 6 years. Living by myself now. My kids are grown, raised them by myself. ...
A. 29 January 2008: I think you have answered your own question by saying "this is not what I deserve from a relationship". He is clearly not in love with you. Love does not make someone cruise dating sites. You do deserve better and it IS out there. ... (read in full...)
He lies about his bad habits and it pees me off!
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year and my relationship has been full of instances where we express something minor about the other person that upsets us - i.e. smoking, viewing pornography. In both cases, he's promised to quit smoking, and quit being secretive ...
A. 29 January 2008: He likes his smoking and his porn, but you don't. He is ashamed that the woman he loves does not like his habits, to please her he will promise anything. But he also feels that because she would like him to stop, she is exerting control, so to keep ... (read in full...)
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