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I married her out of laziness, now she's pregnant and I worship someone else!

Q.   In 1998 a girl invaded my life. Through neglect or simple laziness, I went out with her without complaining, even though she grated with me. She idolised me. Five years on and the relationship was still there, again through my laziness to tell her ...

A.   12 August 2006: I'll not provide a response to the answers as it doesn't seem appropriate. My wife and I have just returned from hospital where she had to endure a 16 hour labour session to give birth to our 21 week old son. We discovered 4 days before that he h... (read in full...)

I married her out of laziness, now she's pregnant and I worship someone else!

Q.   In 1998 a girl invaded my life. Through neglect or simple laziness, I went out with her without complaining, even though she grated with me. She idolised me. Five years on and the relationship was still there, again through my laziness to tell her ...

A.   10 July 2006: Wow! Thank you all so much for your honest and frank replies! I take all the body blows as I deserve them all. I would say I was a little desparate when I wrote the original question (I have since been emailing The Samaritans...) and "lazy" may have ... (read in full...)

My wife just isn't interested in sex, and it's driving me mad!

Q.   Hi, I have a question. I'm 27. I'm in marriage that's devoid of affection and sex, and I'm losing my mind. Basically, I'm the only man on the planet not having regular sex, and the sexual fustration makes me deeply depressed. My wife is cool per...

A.   6 July 2006: Firstly: You are not alone - I too am in a very sex-dry relationship (or a "low sex / no sex relationship" as they say). As another Autie points out (and something I have painfully had to learn) there are "sex people" and "non-sex people" and it's ... (read in full...)

I can't help my attraction to my husband's friend... and I have to!

Q.   God Help me. I've done it again...I'd been seeing my husband's friend a few times and though there was kissing we never had sex and about a month ago we agreed to stop. however because we all socialise in the same group things were difficult a...

A.   6 July 2006: You are so not alone! Mine's slightly different, but the "wanting" and "can't-having" is just as intense (I'm the married man out of love with my wife, in love with another). I can't judge you at all but I guess you have to ask yourself this: Do you ... (read in full...)

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