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Bf asked me to get kinky in bed...but I don't know how! Help??

Q.   I'm trying keep my boyfriend interested in bed. He's asked me to act like a slut in bed but I don't know how or what to do. How do I act slutty? kinky?...in bed. Help me please!...

A.   21 May 2011: You could try watching porn. with him and without him. he can tell you what he wants you to do out of a scene or you can surprise him with moves you learned watching by yourself.... (read in full...)

What is the difference between "cute", "pretty" and "beautiful"?

Q.   So my boyfriend said I wasn't considered pretty or beautiful but cute, and he said that he would prefer cute over anything else. I saw something on the internet about cute vs pretty vs beautiful and hot. I can't find it anywhere; can someone help me ...

A.   21 May 2011: beauty is in the eye of the beholder. that means if his definition of the woman he loves is cute then cute is beautiful pretty all of the above. there may be a difference to some people but really its just a choice of words. if he says he prefers ... (read in full...)

Would I get more attention from boys if I let my grades slip down to C and Ds?

Q.   Do some boys feel intimidated if a girl gets very high marks at school? It seems to me that the girls who get so much more attention from boys do not get as good grades? Or am I wrong here? Should I try to slacken off a bit at school? One of the ...

A.   21 May 2011: omg! never let your grades slip on purpose! boys seem so important right now but give yourself a few years. boys in college will be all over you. if you don't go to college boys in mcdonalds will b all over you. do you catch my drift? girl marry ... (read in full...)

Should a wife feel obligated to satisfy her husband?

Q.   uhm so a question: i'm at a pretty young age. maybe i shouldn't be thinking of this yet but is it normal for a wife not to give her husband "his needs" whenever he wants it if she's not under any condition where she can't but just everyday life? ...

A.   20 May 2011: some women do "satisfy" their husbands three times a day. but after u hav ben n a relationship long enough to b married neither of u usually want it THAT much. alot of women feel less inclined to do the deed as often as their partner and some women ... (read in full...)

Why is it that when someone cries, my vagina gets this weird throbbing feeling?

Q.   This has been happening ever since I can remember, and it's not like I'm turned on or anything.. I mean what the heck is this? I'm so confused. O.o Does anyone have any idea of why this happens?...

A.   20 May 2011: you should get online and look up fetishes. you can probably find a whole group of people with this same situation. they can possibly give you answers or just make you feel less weird about it.... (read in full...)

Is my teacher flirting with me?

Q.   I'm just curious but...is my teacher just a big flirt? I've been in his class for two years, I always stop by his room before school starts to say hi, chat or to study. He poked my arm at times and jokes with me. I know a lot about him and he knows ...

A.   20 May 2011: if you care about him, never bring this to his attention. he could lose his career and possibly go to jail if you two were to ever have a dating type relationship. if you two are truly soul mates and are destined to be togethr then when you beco... (read in full...)

Should I speak to him right now of how I feel or wait and see?

Q.   Well, where shall I start? Over a year ago I started dating this guy a friend introduced me to. I had my doubts at first but then I agreed to go out with him. At first it was too incredible. He was kind, passionate. The first sign that something was ...

A.   20 May 2011: if this were truly an adult relationship, you would talk to him about any negative or positive feelings you are having. it doesn't matter what they are about. leaving him should be a decision you make for yourself. You can't stay with someone to s... (read in full...)

Should I appologise or leave it glossed over?

Q.   Hi everyone, hopefully you can help me out! There is an awful lot of background information here but I think it’s necessary for the ultimate question which is whether I should revisit a dark time in my life to apologise, or leave it glossed over. ...

A.   20 May 2011: u scared her the first time. u will undoubtedly will scare her again. falling like that for someone u never even dated is a little out of the ordinary. she felt ur, excuse me, obsession and she knew even a friendly date would lead u too far. leave ... (read in full...)

Theres a pic of my breasts on everybodys phone

Q.   ok, so i was with this one guy, lets call him bob, and i dumped him...the night that i dumped bob, i was texting an older guy, (fred)..and i sent him a picture of my tits...two days later i started dating a different guy,(george) and i'm still with ...

A.   20 May 2011: i would take it as a life lesson. DONT SEXT. Everybody makes mistakes and u cnt erase everyones memory. in ten years u will probably b able to look back on this and laugh. if the guy ur with likes u for u and understands that this happened bfor u ... (read in full...)

Am I making it worse by being with him now

Q.   so, i am deeply in love with my boyfriend. i love him with all my heart, and we've been dating for a while. but my problem is, that he's moving like 7 hrs away from me,on like july 1st. and i'm not gonna be able to see him anymore. he doesnt want a ...

A.   20 May 2011: if u love him that much go with him. i hate feeling regret. i dnt thnk long distance relationships work very well either but if its meant to b then no mattr what u two will b togethr. prioritize ur life and current situation. do u love him enough to ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend does crack and swears he doesn't cheat on me. Is that even possible?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a boyfriend that is a crack cocaine binger. I am very naive about what goes on when my boyfriend is in this lifestyle. I heard that every time a man smokes this drug that they are promiscuous and can not be alone. My boyfri...

A.   20 May 2011: first of all you SHOULD be worried. If he has cheated on you or not and whether or not he used protection! he could give you hiv and that could kill you. i just dumped my boyfriend because I found out he was smoking crack when he told me he had q... (read in full...)

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