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Is my husband being "recruited" into the gay community?

Q.   My husband thinks he may be gay. The problem with this is that he has never had any thoughts about this before and has never fancied or even thought of being with a man before. The thought of this kind of sex disgusts him. I have found out the ...

A.   15 May 2005: While there are probably people out there that believe they can convert someone or recuit them to being gay or straight it simply isn't true. I have no doubt that your husband is feeling depressed and probably confussed. He needs to get away from ... (read in full...)

When I told my partner that I'm pregnant, he said I have to choose between having him and having our child!

Q.   Hi I am a girl of 16 and my partner is 24. I fell pregnant after 3 months of being with my partner. I told him and ignored me for 2 days and then he phoned me to go for a dinner with him and I agreed, so we met and he said he doesn't want the child. ...

A.   15 May 2005: If you are having and doubts or hesitation you should not terminate your pregnancy, it would be a regret you can never take back. There are plenty of alternatives if keeping the child is not an option. No matter what you decide you need to talk to a ... (read in full...)

Facts about his past years are coming to light. Why wouldn't he tell me himself?

Q.   I am 20 and my boyfriend is 28. We get along really well and we have been dating for 8 months. My issue is, he has been engaged before, and has also lived with someone. He never told me that he was engaged or that he lived with someone. I found out ...

A.   15 May 2005: Everyone has things in his or her past that they are ashamed of but that doesn't mean we can avoid them. Communication in a relationship is key and probably one of the most difficult things. If he is now willing to discuss his past, knowing how you ... (read in full...)

We'd set a date to get married, but he's left and now won't talk to me...

Q.   My partner of 4 years left me and my 4 children a week ago and gone back to his family, who 2 years ago turned their backs on him. We argued over the stress of money and debt. I love him so much and want him back but don't know what to do. We were ...

A.   15 May 2005: I have a feeling, like so many people, he is freaking out about getting married and if his family is not encouraging him to talk to you then his fears are probably worsening. Give him some space and time. If it is truly love he will come back but ... (read in full...)

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