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I'm just your average 24 year old woman. I try my best to do what I think and feel is right, although that doesn't always work. I don't know about helping people, but I know it's always nice to get a new perspective on something, and a new look on the situation.

Do I sound like I am a lesbian?

Q.   So, I thought I was sure on my sexuality. But, lately I feel like I'm not a lesbian. Or I don't know where my feelings point to. Because I find both boys and girls attractive in 'that' way. But then again, lesbians aren't blind, and neither are ...

A.   29 January 2011: Why hello there, I think you are, bisexual, and young. I come from a lesbian house-hold and I always grew up learning that 'Love is not a gender, it's a person'. Which is how I identify. You are right though, in this day and age we are a society... (read in full...)

Is my wife still sexually attracted to me?

Q.   My wife and I have been married for 13 years, and I love her with all of my heart. I'm more attracked to her now than when we first got married. However, I don't think that she's all that attracked to me anymore. Our sex life sucks. I want it al...

A.   29 January 2011: You should talk to your wife. I'm going to guess she is roughly about the same age as you so it's not about being shy. If she takes medication (anything from diabetes medication to depression) it might be causing her to have a lower sex drive than ... (read in full...)

We're cousins! Is it wrong that we want to be together?

Q.   me and my girlfriend have been going steady for 4 months now and we have been keeping it a secret from our parents because we're cousins. what i want to know if what we are doing is wrong before we push it to having sex....

A.   29 January 2011: Crushing on cousins happens. I had a crush on my cousin. We spent a lot of time together. I really liked him but never approached the situation because, well *cousins* and he was older. But, see, it's just that a crush. Those happen, it isn't ... (read in full...)

Threesomes, Texts, Truths and Drama

Q.   Okay, I have this friend, we'll call her Moon. Now she and I have been friends for almost five years. I've seen her go through several boyfriends, as she has seen me do. Her boyfriends though, ranged from emotionally abusive, spoiled brats, t...

A.   29 January 2011: • @ Flynn Thank you for your swift reply. I completely agree that it was silly and childish to play drinking games with her ex. I should have known better, but common sense is apparently not my forte. It is very interesting to have a males poin... (read in full...)

I'm fourteen, he's nineteen, should I arrange for us to meet?

Q.   ive been talking to this guy he is nineteen and he lives in south carolina and i live in california but like im really starting to like him and i cant help but smile wen he txt me ive never felt like this before and im not sure what to do im ...

A.   29 January 2011: As someone who was once in your position? DON'T. If you two really like each-other he will have no problem waiting until you are like Flynn said, of a legal age. I know it's hard and with a first love, and it can seem like no one really understands ... (read in full...)

Married 5 years, still virgins, help!

Q.   This year I will celebrate my 5 year wedding anniversary. Unfortunately, my wife and I are still virgins. I love her with all of my heart. People that know us think we have the most wonderful, romantic relationship. Love letters every morning before ...

A.   29 January 2011: Well the first thing you might try is talking to her, let her know that you have these frustrations and that it's putting a strain on your marriage. Maybe she's scared still, or perhaps just doesn't want to make the first move. I know divorce isn't ... (read in full...)

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