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We have a new baby on the way but my husband of 14 years has a major drinking problem!

Q.   My husband of 14 years has gradually started drinking more often. He has never been a heavy drinker but he is a regular pot smoker and he likes wine. For the past year he has been drinking a half to three quarters of a bottle of wine every night 4-5 ...

A.   23 April 2007: it's the weed that's making him lose his short term memory not the alcohol. however your man seems to have a problem with dealing with life without the need of a mask in the form of drink or drugs. he is unwell, whether he wants to believe it or ... (read in full...)

He tells me to get over him one minute, then wants to kiss me the next! What is going on with him?

Q.   Well i've been talking to this guy for about 5 months already. During that time I started to have feelings for him becuz he is a really nice guy i've never met anyone like him. He called me a couple of days ago to tell me that i should get over him ...

A.   23 April 2007: this is called transferense. he's basically putting his confused feelings onto you. he wants to feel powerful in the sense that someone loves him, and he is disregarding it. in other words, he wants to believe that he is the one pulling all the ... (read in full...)

Why do my guy contradict his actions with me?

Q.   I have been with this guy for like 10 months or so, we've been living together for that long, but seeing eachother for about a yr. And we were friends for like 6 yrs. before that. I'm 25 and he's 32. Anyways, we had a baby about a week ago, and ...

A.   23 April 2007: hi honey, this sucks for you and you baby. I'sorry that this wonderful time is being tainted because he is insecure, and unsure of your love for him? don't sit in silence anymore, have it out with him. he is being emotionally manipulative, and ... (read in full...)

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