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Age difference - I need your advice please!

Q.   I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just ...

A.   14 October 2008: The calendar age and the actual maturity do not always coincide. Despite the age difference of 7 years your boy could be at the same level of maturity as you. Judging from your letter, this love, beautiful as it is, looks like a crush. Time is ... (read in full...)

I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?

Q.   Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...

A.   13 October 2008: Dear reviewer, please do not make errors. It was inane, not insane. This is not a judgment; no more than an idea that I offer you to consider. Surely, he is a brute. This is what you like him for. Probably you do not realize that the reason of your ... (read in full...)

Age difference - I need your advice please!

Q.   I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just ...

A.   13 October 2008: Dear, I am more than 3 times older than you and I have learned something by experience. The complexity of a human personality and its capacity to compensate for mental disorders is amazing and unpredictable. Doctors like to stigmatize people and ... (read in full...)

I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?

Q.   Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...

A.   12 October 2008: This is not a judgment; no more than an idea that I offer you to consider. Surely, he is a brute. This is what you like him for. Probably you do not realize that the reason of your forbearance is just his treatment of you. A strait fellow who would ... (read in full...)

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