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How long do I wait for my husband to make up for a terrible 20th anniversary weekend?

Q.   Married 20 years, received only a handful of birthday, anniversary, special occasion gifts. Read all the help columns and told husband exactly what I wanted for anniversary which was a week trip so we could reconnect. I started planning and he said ...

A.   17 January 2013: Husband and I had a discussion about all this. He said he didn't realize these things meant a lot to me. He said he thought everything was okay, that I had never fussed or told him he couldn't do whatever he wanted, so he thought I was fine. Guess ... (read in full...)

How long do I wait for my husband to make up for a terrible 20th anniversary weekend?

Q.   Married 20 years, received only a handful of birthday, anniversary, special occasion gifts. Read all the help columns and told husband exactly what I wanted for anniversary which was a week trip so we could reconnect. I started planning and he said ...

A.   15 January 2013: Wow Code Warrior, I read that post several times, I think you are exactly right! I just wanted to be first for once. I have considered leaving but I really don't want to. I want to fix the problem but I don't know how. I do know it is not my problem ... (read in full...)

Trying to work things out with the ex but I'm giving him enough rope to hang himself. How long do I give him to change?

Q.   My ex boyfriend and I have decided to work our relationship out. In 3 years, we've broken up twice and have been through a lot together. Our breakups centered around him basically not having enough time for me, and by that I mean literally seeing ...

A.   15 January 2013: I have made "mental notes" for 20 years now. My husband was/is career driven and I am still last on the list. I think when you say that you don't even flip out anymore that means you have emotionally already checked out. You just need to figure out ... (read in full...)

How long do I wait for my husband to make up for a terrible 20th anniversary weekend?

Q.   Married 20 years, received only a handful of birthday, anniversary, special occasion gifts. Read all the help columns and told husband exactly what I wanted for anniversary which was a week trip so we could reconnect. I started planning and he said ...

A.   15 January 2013: Thank you all so much for your feedback. I think I knew all along what the responses would be and felt that I needed someone to justify my feelings. We did have the talk and when I mention what he said he was going to do his response is that he ... (read in full...)

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