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How do I deal with the occasional need to be away from my boyfriend and his daughter?

Q.   Hello all, I am in a relationship with a loving, doting, compassionate father of a two-year old who while is not mine, is a true beam of sunshine and I'd do anything for her. I am twenty, yes--young, was raised without a father and a vague, abusive ...

A.   10 April 2018: I think the feelings you are having when you see him being sweet and kind towards his daughter are based in mild jealousy. We always think jealousy is such a terrible emotion to be having but it usually stems from being shown something we have los... (read in full...)

Husband says he lied to me about talking to a female coworker to spare my feelings

Q.   I’m currently battling depression. My husband recently lied to me. He told me had to step away to make a phone call to his buddy. I had a feeling something was off because he would never step away. I later find out he called a female coworker and ...

A.   10 April 2018: If he won't talk to females in front of you to try and spare your feelings then it's obviously NOT working because you are already upset. Basically he's damned if he does or damned if he don't. If he is 'over friendly' with women and it is a pro... (read in full...)

What do my husband's cuckolding fantasies mean?

Q.   My husband has lots of cuckholding fantasies and imagines watching me with other men. I have told him this will remain fantasy as I'll never do this in real life so that's not my question here My question is whether I should be worried that he ...

A.   9 April 2018: I think most men and a lot of women have some secret sexual fantasy or other. For most people it never gets past a thought but for some the urge to make it a reality can become all consuming and this in turn can affect the balance of an otherwise ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend takes his problems out on me because I am white.

Q.   Background info: BF and I have been dating 4 years. We live together now. He's my best friend, and when we are both sober we are happy. My boyfriend is half Navajo Native American (Dine tribe to be technical, as Navajo is a derogatory term ...

A.   9 April 2018: Your boyfriend seems really immature if he is using his mixed race to pick fights with you. I mean, just stand back a bit and look at that for a few moments...just seems pretty ridiculous and nasty doesn't it?. If he has always had a problem ... (read in full...)

Am I bored or is this the end?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. We have been living together for 3 years. I keep asking myself the question lately- 'Should we be together?' He is into cars/geeky stuff/computers/food and that is pretty much all he is interested in....

A.   9 April 2018: Is your relationship normal?, actually it is very normal. Relationships and long ones at that take lots of hard work and effort and often go stale. We can all imagine the super duper perfect couple smiling daily at eachother, checking in to how ... (read in full...)

My husband has turned into a hateful old man.

Q.   My husband of many years has become very verbally and emotionally abusive. He hates everyone including me. He has alienated even our children and no one comes to visit. I have a 50th high school reunion this summer and I intend on going..I am not ...

A.   9 April 2018: I am so sorry that you are living in this situation, it must feel to you as if there is no escape. It seems your husband is angry at life, perhaps due to his disability or just the general lack of liking himself or others. When people get into ... (read in full...)

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