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My friends say he is a player, who should I believe?

Q.   im only 13 but i am going out with a boy and we have been going out for a few days but everyone is telling me that he is a player and that he will break my heart but that isnt the side i see, he is really sweet and does so much for me and always ...

A.   28 November 2009: I've been in this exact situation. I didn't believe my friends, and now I wish I would've. They said he was a player and that I needed to break up with him but I didn't listen and ended up getting my heart broken. Listen to your friends sweetie. ... (read in full...)

I get embarassed and don't know what to say to guys that approach me! What can I do?

Q.   dear cupid, i'm horrible around guys, sure i know two or three, but i just can't talk to them at all. some of them are nice but i get all red and confused and then they just walk off and think i'm weird. my friends say i'll get past it but how ...

A.   20 August 2009: Just relax around think about it as no big deal. Its just like your talking to your best friend. Once you do it the first time it just get easier. ... (read in full...)

I'm 24, she's 14 but she loves me and I don't want to hurt her

Q.   Hi i was looking for advice and found this site, I wrote my whole question out and it got deleted some how. So I have to write again, Basically this girl who is a close family friend came onto me while i was at a Summer BBQ at her house, asked...

A.   15 August 2009: Wow. Well I think I can help. When I was 13 I was completely in love or I thought I was with a guy that was almost 20, I told him and he said he liked me and we messed around a little and hung out all the time. But I knew we couldn't be 'together'. ... (read in full...)

Longer lasting way to relieve cramps?

Q.   Quite frankly, I hate period cramps. This is the worse I have gotten them in a long time. I had a warm bath earlier and it soothed them for a bit. But now they're back and they really hurt. Can anyone please recommened a longer-lasting way ...

A.   15 August 2009: MIDOL! Its like my best friend when I'm on my period. Or you can put a heating pad on your stomach that helps sometimes. ... (read in full...)

She's 13 and she wants me to have sex with her!!!

Q.   Hi I'm 16 and my girlfriend has just turned 13 but she wants sex! What should I do? Is it ok to have sex with someone that age cos she has kept asking me almost every night for about 3 weeks....

A.   12 August 2009: Don't have sex with her. She may think she is ready but trust me she is not. I was the same way when I was 13 I wanted to have sex with this guy that was older and we almost did but he stopped it and I hated that. But now I am glad he did I have ... (read in full...)

Sibling sex

Q.   Hi, i read a post about a brother and sister having sex, at first i thought it was wrong but a lot of the replys where people that have had sex with there siblings and enjoyed it, and didn't have any long turm negative effects from it. Now i can't ...

A.   29 July 2009: Don't. Its creepy and illegal. What more do you need to know to make a decision?... (read in full...)

We use condoms but she's missed her period

Q.   My Girlfriend and I are both 15 and have been having sex for the past few months, we have always used a condom. The last time was approximately 2 weeks ago. Her period was due about a week ago and has still not come, i am concerned she may be ...

A.   27 July 2009: Well the condom didn't break so I'm like 98% sure she isn't pregnant, her cycle is probably just irregular. If she has miss her period befor then that most likely it. But if your still flippin go get a pregnancy test. And good job on using ... (read in full...)

Does he like me? Where do I go from here?

Q.   We don't really talk a ton, but he tags along with my friends and I sometimes If I ask for a hug, he will give me one (I like hugs) At a dance, he just refused to dance so I grabbed his hands and started dancing around. He started dancing as we...

A.   27 July 2009: Just tell him. You never know how perfect something can end up unless you take the chance to find out. ... (read in full...)

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