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He has subjected me to mental abuse.

Q.   I have been with my partner for 13 years. I am 32 and he is 42. About a year ago we decided we were in a good position in our lives to have a family. We always said if we had children we would get married so we also decided we would do this as well. ...

A.   8 September 2007: Do you think he is worth it? If so, I would suggest couples counselling. Sometimes people can discuss things in counselling that aren't easily discussed otherwise. You have been with this guy for 13 years for a reason, and same with him. If he ... (read in full...)

I was abused in the past and I found out my guy watches porn. What should I do or say about it?

Q.   I have been with my man for 7 years gonna get married well about 9 years ago i was abused for a sexually abused for a year he has always surported, me but now i have found that he watches porn when i go bed. it makes my skin crawl and he doesnt ...

A.   8 September 2007: Porn can be very upsetting and degrading to women. I've had a brother and many male friends and I've seen what they look at. He probably sees it as innocent and not affecting your relationship, he needs to know that you know and how you feel about ... (read in full...)

Could my BF's viewing of exploitative child porn have just been a fluke?

Q.   I wrote earlier, about my bf looking at underage girls, child porn, or whatever. I wasn't trying to find out what an appropriate age to be looking at this is. For the record he is 20. I was hoping to see if this would be considered a normal thing ...

A.   18 August 2007: I think that my bf likes child porn. I know that he has viewed lots of porn in his past as a teenager etc. (according to him) and i discovered that he has has a liking for child porn (according to his writings, that I snooped over). I do love him ... (read in full...)

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