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How do I take my relationship further without sex?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are 15 and we have been going out for almost 10 months and we have done all the snogging and kissing lark. I'm wondering how to take our relationship further without sex. I don't touch his balls at all and he doesn't touch my ...

A.   10 September 2012: A few years ago I was also in a similar situation as yourself. The reason I was able to overcome this was I was very open with my ex boyfriend. We both discussed what we felt was appropriate at the time and what we both felt comfortable doing. I ... (read in full...)

How can I make our night of passion more romantic ?

Q.   hey :) Me and my boyfriend are planning to spend a romantic night on the beach for our ten month anniversary. We will be spending the night in a tent on the stones under the blanket together...we have had sex many times before :) he was my first an...

A.   22 January 2012: Don't worry thought I know how you feel! I find it really hard to be romantic to, its just not in me? if that makes at all any sense, but personally the moments I find most romantic are the times you just share together, like the snuggles etc, I'm ... (read in full...)

Could she have recorded me? If this video got out it would ruin my life! What should I do?

Q.   Hello there, I really need help. I am a guy and I have a girlfriend who I really love. Some time ago (about a year ago) we had a bad period and in this period I started chatting. In a chatbox I met a girl and we talked on msn for a while. ...

A.   22 January 2012: Hello :) The best offer I can give you is you shouldn't worry about it, something like this previously happened to me, luckily I didn't go all the way, but the guy I was on cam with turned out to be not so nice, stupidly he had a girlfriend and he ... (read in full...)

Chlamydia Question

Q.   Two years ago I was raped by my boyfriend. I got cystitis afterwards; I got anti biotics and didn't think much more about it. I read about the symptoms of Chlamydia recently and it says you get cystitis symptoms (which I still have, but no ...

A.   22 January 2012: Hey, firstly wishing you all the best with your test tomorrow, and I'm deeply sorry to hear about what your boyfriend did to you, I hope my advice helps but usually it takes years (more than 2) before chlamydia can make you infertile, yes it does ... (read in full...)

How can I make our night of passion more romantic ?

Q.   hey :) Me and my boyfriend are planning to spend a romantic night on the beach for our ten month anniversary. We will be spending the night in a tent on the stones under the blanket together...we have had sex many times before :) he was my first an...

A.   22 January 2012: Hey, firstly I think thats a really sweet idea what you guys are doing together, but I recommend thinking carefully about where you set up your tent as you can be told the leave the beach by police etc (silly I know!) I would also suggest candles, ... (read in full...)

How can I stop cum leaking out after sex?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now... Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me? whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especially ...

A.   22 January 2012: I am using another form of birth control, sorry I didn't make this very clear, the only reason I asked this question is because none of this happens to my close friends etc, I was just checking I was "normal" ... (read in full...)

How can I stop cum leaking out after sex?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now... Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me? whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especially ...

A.   22 January 2012: I was just generally curious if I'm normal, that was all... and no I don't use a condom but I am on other birth controls I'm not stupid, I care for my future and understand getting pregnant at this age is stupid, but thanks for all the comments... (read in full...)

Should my girlfriend and I stop doing anything sexual?

Q.   I am a teenager who's about to hit 16. My girlfriend also turns 16 at the same time as I do. We've been in a close relationship for almost 7 months. We don't get much opportunity, but when we're alone, once every few weeks, we partake in some form ...

A.   13 March 2011: I've only just recently turned 16 myself, and have you tried talking to her about why she has asked this? maybe you're asking for a bit too much to soon and she is too nervous to say anything, recently I have gone through things like this too, me ... (read in full...)

Should I message her?

Q.   i m a really shy guy...during college i fell for a girl ..it took me 3 months n alot of pushing to go and tell her..she knew through common friends that i liked her. the time i talked to her she was really nice but said she's not interested other th...

A.   7 March 2011: Okay, this seems to be really frustrating you, and I'm sorry if my answer isn't any help, but in my opinion if I was in your situation and she was constantly running through my mind too, I would more than likely have to message her and slowly take ... (read in full...)

How can I look and feel more sexy for my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half, I'm a size 14 but really hate my body, I know my boyfriend loves me and my body but i see him looking at other girls on facebook and stuff, I feel like i cant satisfy him, we hardly ...

A.   21 February 2011: I'm only 16 and have been with my boyfriend for just under a year, so I kinda know the situation you're feeling, we live in a tough image obsessed world thanks to the media, but sweetie the truth to being sexy is confidence!, just little things can ... (read in full...)

Age difference dilemma......

Q.   i really like this guy i work with *no rules at work about dating co workers* and we have been flirty for a while now, but i have just found out that there is a huge age difference (9 years! i'm about to turn 18 and he is 27) i really want this to ...

A.   21 February 2011: Your relationship is entirely your own. Age is only a number and if your really falling for this guy like you say you are how can a silly little number put a price on that? After all, we're in the 21st century, many couples share a wide age gaps ... (read in full...)

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