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How to stop slowly talking to the ex?

Q.   please bear with this and give as many opinions as possible ...how would you slowly stop talking to your ex girlfriend of one year old relationship...i dumped her cuz i am committment phobic but we care for each other a lot and are still ...

A.   18 June 2009: You have to break off the friendship. For her sake and yours. The supportive friendship is not working here. It is hindering instead of healing. It has been a long enough time to try and be friends. After a year the proof is....it is not working. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has "been around"

Q.   I'm stuck I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months but I met him for the first time when I was 14. I love him more than anything but the only problem is, hes got a "record" Lets just say, he's been around. My problem is that I just can't s...

A.   18 June 2009: Baby you are not stuck. I've been there and thought I was stuck too. You are only stuck in your mind. If you were married to him my advice would be very different. I can bet my bottom dollar that your image of prince charming and the man who you've ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wondering if she'll ever care about her appearance?

Q.   This autumn will be 6 years married, 7 years in the same relationship and i will be 26. My girl is really good to me, but she is really overweight. I figured eventually she could lose weight, but there's never been any motivation. I've tried ...

A.   18 June 2009: Jerk or not? It sounds like you know the answer to that question. It sounds like your conscience is speaking to you but you don't want to listen to it. You already know your thoughts are wrong or you would not be struggling with it. I think what you ... (read in full...)

Fall of something wonderful

Q.   I never thought I knew what the word 'agony' meant until I left my girlfriend of three and a half years. Something so simple and pure...and I destroyed it in one afternoon. All she ever wanted from me was love. She gave more than I did, and asked ...

A.   17 June 2009: Define love? Is it a deep emotional attachment to someone? Feelings of deep lose when that someone is no longer there? Is love what you get or what you give? I think most people view relationships as a two step love. 1) How I want you to love me- I ... (read in full...)

I feel so drained and worthless

Q.   i feel worthless i feel i should be talking to a freind about my problems, but then they just say what you want to hear. so im here telling my problem. i feel really down today after too many arguments with my partner of 6 years its really ge...

A.   17 June 2009: -Hi, I understand where you are coming from. Sometimes I feel so drained and unhappy with myself I don't know what to do. Having a negative person heap more negativity on you isn't likely to help. Sometimes being a stay at home mom is one of the ... (read in full...)

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